I Give Credit to the Tulips, the Woods, the Words

The Tulips In My Back Yard

My husband and I still like each other.

We have had a lot of togetherness. A lot of uncertainty. A roller coaster of emotions.

Tulips take my husband outside.  He tends the garden. The brown, rich earth is his medium. He disappears in the beauty of creation.  He returns with a smile.

Tulips allow us some separation and space.

The garden helps us stay friends and our marriage stay healthy.

I give credit to the Tulips in our back yard.  A sign of Spring.  A sign of Renewal.  A sign of Hope.

 

 

My Neck Of The Woods

We are allowed to go for walks in our neighbourhood.  We are encouraged to exercise.  

I am very grateful.  I am aware many people on our planet do not have this privilege.

We have access to a forest and farms nearby. 

We move one foot in front of the other.  We are aware how time marches on. 

Today’s present moment is more important than the past or the future. 

I give credit to the Woods. Tranquil moments in nature replenish my soul.

 

Beautiful Words

I have many words that enter my life every day. 

Words entertain me.  They teach me.  

Words comfort me. They sustain me.

The words seep into my pores.

I give credit to the Words.  Words forever change me.

 

Grateful For My Life

Today I am healthy.  I live in a tranquil, beautiful part of the world.

Today’s present moment is all I truly have.

I give credit to the Tulips, the Woods, and especially the Words.

 

 

 

What do you do to stay mentally and physically healthy?

         

Postscript:

I have mentioned before how I learn something new from every single post I read.

Please continue writing, sharing and connecting. You will not always know when you have made a difference in someone’s life.

A Few Recent Words:         

  • Lisa Dorenfest: “…life has prepared me for this moment….”   “…visualizing what I want my life to look like post-pandemic.” Since I read these insightful words, I also have been “visualizing what I want my life to look like post-pandemic.”   Thank you for your wisdom, Lisa.  Lisa Dorenfest
  • Lauren Baydreamer  Exceptionally creative words capturing the mood and emotions of our present time.  I am left with goosebumps long after reading this powerful palindrome poetry.  “The Virus”
  • Natalie Natalie the Explorer  Shares a post each week where she focuses on “Every day is full of simple pleasures that make me feel positive and grateful.” “During these uncertain times, I choose to focus on the positives, work on finding a balance in my day, be flexible, and stay strong.” Natalie, your words help me focus on the beauty of my surroundings.  You are an inspiration.
  • Leanne Cresting The Hill  Marie Kondo’s books refer to items and a life that sparks joy. Leanne’s words and her message resonated with me: “…it’s okay to not fill every waking moment with something meaningful.” “Doing less sparks a lot of joy for me.”  
  • Joanne And Anyways…  Home schooling is a challenge for many right now.  Joanne shared a meme that continues to make me smile.  “It might take a village to raise a child, but it takes a vineyard to home-school one.”
  • Sue Sizzling Towards 60 & Beyond  Shared a game she plays online with her six-year-old grandson, Ethan. They find five things starting with a letter of the day.  Ethan writes it down, takes a photo of it and shares it with Sue.  I began doing this last week with six-year-old Sadie.  She loves this game!  Thank you, Sue.  You always make a difference in my week.
  • Dr. Bonnie Henry, Provincial Health Officer for British Columbia, informs calmly and clearly about COVID-19:   

This is not forever. This is just for now. Let’s all be kind, be calm, and stay safe.”

 

144 thoughts on “I Give Credit to the Tulips, the Woods, the Words

    1. Hi Antoinette, All the credit for the tulips goes to my husband and the rain we have, especially in April. Thank you for visiting. I hope all is well. Take care.

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  1. What a beautiful post, Erica. I loved your first line! It made me laugh because yesterday evening Derek and I were out on our patio enjoying the hummingbirds. He looked at me and said, “We’re like a Harlequin novel.” His words were so true. One of the requirements by my editor in writing for Love Inspired is to have the hero and heroine together on every page, as much as possible. This is not always easy for me, but in dealing with the quarantine, I’ve found it easy to be with Derek 24/7. As for your husband’s tulips…WOW! They are absolutely gorgeous. He certainly has a green thumb. Thanks for sharing them with us. Stay well! ❤

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    1. Hi Jill, You made me smile with Derek’s comment. Of course, being married to you, he would feel this way. 💕 Very interesting about the requirement by your editor. Wow, a great deal of wisdom here, and why readers enjoy a story. My husband and I have always enjoyed each other’s company. He seems happier when he has projects and hobbies especially when I bury myself in reading and writing. Now you know our secrets, Jill. My husband does most of the cooking and the gardening. Yes, I am lucky. Thank you for your lovely comment. Take care.💕

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  2. Glorious tulips, walks, and words! Both photos of those paths seem enticing.

    We walk most mornings, bike in the afternoon, head to the pool on occasion. I don’t feel stressed by the changes . . . but I do feel sad for people who have been directly impacted by the virus. Dr. Henry is right ~> This too shall pass.

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    1. Hi Nancy, The irony on the paths is how I took the photos in almost the same spot about five weeks apart. It was only after I looked at the photos I realized how much more green the area has become in one month. It sounds like you have a great, healthy routine with lots of exercise. Thank you for sharing your kind words. Take care.

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        1. Totally right on, Nancy. My husband did not even realize it was the same area of the path, until we talked about it. I did not really notice the changes until I looked at the photos.

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    1. Hi Michele, I am amazed by these tulips, too. I think I am noticing more of the little things close to home, because I am staying close to home. Funny how that happens. 🙂 Wow, on the eyelashes. I had not thought of this until you mentioned it. I don’t recall seeing such an unusual variety of tulips in past years. Thank you for your kind comment. 💕

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      1. Noticing is a great benefit to come out of our quarantine. Some would even say it is a spiritual discipline. Not one I necessarily have. I tend to be oblivious of all the wrong things (: Have a good evening.

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  3. Love the tulips…way to go Chuck…I’ll have to check them out next spring. Great little paths…definitely more green growth than the last time I was there. For me the sun, the flowers and the great outdoors lift my spirits!

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    1. Hi Eduarda, The funny thing about the path photos is how I took the photos in almost the same spot about five weeks apart. When I was looking through my photos for this post I realized how much more green the path is now. Yay, for all the rain. Lol. The nice weather and getting outside does lift our spirits. I hope we can get together when the time is right, even with social distancing. ❤️

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    1. Hi Kate, I hear how tulips are also deer food in parts of Victoria. We have a pretty high fence, so no deer in the yard. It has been an extra challenging time for you. Hugs and take care. Yes, we will come through this.

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  4. Hi Erica/ Erika, Thank you to Chuck and you for sharing the beautiful tulips that leap off the page. The walking trails in your neck of the woods are inviting and reminding me of the trails I walked in BC last Fall. Thank you also for mentioning my words. I totally agree with Your words “Today’s present moment is more important than the past or the future.” Stay safe, calm, and strong my friends. Have a wonderful week!

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    1. Hi Natalie, Your posts are always interesting and like a breath of fresh air. You likely hear this from many other readers. I wasn’t sure where I was going with this post when I started writing down a few thoughts. Thank you for sharing your lovely, kind, supportive words. I look forward to staying connected. Take care.

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  5. Such a lovely, peaceful post, Erica. The garden and the woods and the words bring solace and renewal to me and mine as well. We are truly blessed to live in this beautiful part of the world and to have access to these gifts. ❤

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    1. Thank you for your kind, supportive words, Diana. I was mentioning to my husband on today’s walk, how the word “peaceful” was surfacing in the comments. I had not thought about this before today. It is peaceful in our neighbourhood and in our city. You are right, I am very grateful we have access to these gifts. Take care and stay well.❤️

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  6. Hi Erica,

    Thank you for this glorious inspiration through words, photos, and wisdom. And thank you SO much for including me. I’m touched that my poem resonated with you during these Covid times. And I’m truly flattered. When I first read your words and saw your gorgeous tulips, I thought, “Wow!” Such beauty that keeps us sane right now. As to the woods, you already know my hubby and I love their tranquility and beauty while camping or backpacking. And words, you said it so eloquently: they entertain, they teach, they comfort and sustain. I wholeheartedly agree. Blooms this year have been more of a balm to me than any year in the past, even though I’ve loved them as much. These are unprecedented, scary times, but your post soothes my soul and I’m sure I’m not alone in saying this. Thank you again. Hugs, Lauren 🌷

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    1. Hi Lauren, The first time I read your poem I was very moved, brimming with tears. You are likely getting this feedback from other readers. I am glad more people have a chance to read your words.

      I thought I noticed flowers, blooms in the past. Yet, the colours seem more beautiful and vibrant lately. I don’t know whether I am more aware of my surroundings or whether everything is cleaner and crisper on our planet? Or both. I appreciate this forum to create, share and connect. Thank you for your thoughtful, supportive comment. 🌹

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  7. When planting last fall,
    I did not know,
    Ma Nature would throw
    the covid-19 ball.

    She’s given us pause,
    A moment to reflect;
    Watch the train wreck,
    Or join Greta’s cause.

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  8. I like tulips so I’m happy to see them here. Anywhere. They are a symbol of stability in uncertain times like these.

    I’m a natural born sloth, so for me doing things slowly is my preference. Not that I want to be living a stay-at-home life but now that I/we are, I can accept it perhaps more easily than many people can. As I often say, do less, enjoy more. 🌷

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    1. Hi Ally, I had not thought of tulips as a symbol of stability. They do appear every Spring at around the same time. Yes, comforting and stable. Also, the first time I have heard it said this way, “do less, enjoy more.” I plan to borrow your phrase, starting today. 🙂 I think my life has been evolving in this direction. I am much happier for it.🌹

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  9. After fifteen years of retirement I still like being with my husband. We hold hands when we walk, say ‘I love you’ often and we find plenty to talk about when we are out to dinner. Having said that, there have been days recently when I savor the minutes of alone time during his morning and afternoon walks. I think it goes with the climate in which we are living. Erica, your beautifully written and illustrated sentiments have brought a settling of peace over me today. Thank you.

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    1. Hi Suzanne, I can tell how good a relationship you have with your husband from your posts. It especially helps when we are together a great deal. I read something recently, how The Rock was talking about quarantine at home with his family. One of the things he said is how he and his wife are giving each other more slack. An interesting way of putting things. I am grateful for every day we are able to spend together. And I give my husband all the credit for the tulips.

      Thank you always, for you kind, thoughtful comments.xx

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  10. Erica, I marvel at your knack of creating a wonderful post out of flowers and woods and walks that we take for granted! Love those tulips, they add so much color to our life and love the woods, an epitome of serenity. Both keep us mentally and physically healthy. Love your words of togetherness. Stay blessed dear friend, you inspire life.

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    1. Hi Balroop, I greatly appreciate your lovely, kind and supportive comment. I think I am more aware of my immediate surroundings. All of the colours are more vibrant and beautiful than I recall in past years. I also wonder whether everything on our planet is cleaner, fresher and the plants are responding to this? We have a small area of woods across a park from us and we take advantage of it often twice a day. I agree, Balroop, serenity. Take care and stay well.

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  11. A World in wondrous colour of the woods, words and tulips. Truly a lovely post thank you Erica. There is so much to be grateful for – the beauty of mother nature and her bounteous expressions. Your photographs are exquisite.

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    1. ps you asked what do we do to keep ourselves physically and mentally healthy? One thing I can barely believe is the vegetable garden we are creating. Some weeks ago my husband planted spinach seeds and they’re blooming and blooming delicious. I started my own little patch and planted lettuce and parley. Now, as of this afternoon when garden services came by to mow the lawn and tidy up (first time in weeks due to lockdown) they’ve dug out a huge area for more planting on my husband’s instructions. We’re going to have to tend to this with composting and I don’t know what else over the next two weeks before planting veg … this dug out area is 6 times larger than I anticipated … we’ll be supplying the neighbourhood at this rate 🙂 Life is good, we know that we are blessed, we’re grateful, we’re aware of the hardships faced by so many in our country because of lockdown and do our bit with regard to feeding schemes and so on …

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      1. Wow, Susan, you and your husband are amazing! You likely live in an area where vegetables grow well. Vegetables from our garden always taste better and exceptionally fresh. I am not at all a gardener. I appreciate the flowers and vegetables. My husband does all of the work. I say, thank you. 🙂 I get sad and worried when I know many people are facing significant and serious hardships. One day at a time, and do what we can to help.

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    2. I love your phrase, Susan, “the beauty of Mother Nature and her bounteous expressions.” Very true, and it is all in my back yard. I do notice and appreciate it more this year than in past years. Likely a lesson from this. I greatly appreciate your very kind comment. Take care and stay well. xx

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    1. Thank you Betsy! I had taken photos of the tulips in our yard and I decided to wrap a post around them. We have tulips every year, yet this year they were gorgeous. Thanks to my husband. 🙂 Thank you for visiting my back yard.

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    1. Thank you for your lovely comment, Janet. Here you go again, making me smile. I also find I am noticing more on my walks. A lesson for me here. I hope you are well. I will catch up on my reading since I know you were heading out to visit your daughter over the past couple of weeks. Take care and stay well.

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  12. Lovely words, Erica. You live in such a beautiful part of the world and Chuck’s tulips make it even more gorgeous. My husband and I still like each other too; we’ve learned to give each other just the right amount of personal space and togetherness. We stay physically healthy by getting out and exercising as well as focusing on eating food that is good for us. We stay mentally healthy by reading, talking, and learning new skills. Not much different from before the virus, but our gym and classroom are a lot closer to home 🙂

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    1. Hi Janis, You make a good point, where we have a similar routine as before, yet do it all from home. Chuck used to go out daily to a gym, and I went almost daily to a yoga class. We can exercise from home. Chuck was all keen to go fishing with a friend and this may happen later this Summer. Every single person is forgoing activities with other people and ones that take us away from home. We always count our blessings. Looking forward to seeing you soon, Janis.🙂

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  13. Tulips, woods, and words — what a lovely triad around which to weave and express impressions, connections, gratitude, and insights. The photos of the tulips were extraordinary and brought me much joy today. Also, the woods offer a chance to listen to the “words” of Nature as do the tulips. Then there are the soothing and insightful words from astute bloggers that you named.

    On the relationship front, I can’t believe that after living apart most of the time for 8 years, my husband and I are doing quite well. I think it is fantastic that your husband loves to toodle in the garden. What a blessing!

    Personally I don’t worry about staying safe (most people are at very low risk for this virus according to the CDC and I, fortunately, fall into a healthy category even though I am 66); I worry about trying to keep sane and I do that by keeping as regular of a schedule as I can each and every day by stimulating my mind (language learning, ukulele), keeping fit through walking, biking, hiking, swimming; spiritually strong through a regular practice of a home yoga, prayer and meditation program.

    Thanks for sharing your lovely garden, woods, and some favorite blogs! I am inspired by it all.

    Susan Grace

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    1. Hi Susan, I cannot imagine the challenges living apart most of the time for 8 years. We did this one year when our children were young and it was a challenging year.

      Your words give me comfort, not worrying about staying safe. My husband had a significant lung infection last year and I think this puts him at increased risk of complications. I don’t want to bring anything home to him. You are inspirational with how well-rounded and balanced you are with your activities and your philosophy on life in general and especially right now. I appreciate you sharing.

      Thank you for your very kind, thoughtful and supportive words. I find this forum is very much a Happy Place for me. Especially when I have you as a friend.xx❤️

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    1. Hi Lori, Thank you for sharing your link. Definitely photos that put a smile on my face, especially capturing the beautiful cardinals. I don’t know whether it is my imagination or colours are more vibrant this year. I may be paying more attention. Thank you for your lovely comment. Staying sane is a good thing.🙂

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  14. Hi Erica I always feel
    Calm and uplifted after reading your posts. Nature has helped me during this period of isolation. Although life has not changed dramatically for Mike and I, I’ve found joy and peace through daily walks or runs by the ocean. Watching sunrises and sunsets which have been glorious. Your husband certainly has a green thumb, the tulips are just stunning. Fortunately Mike and I enjoy each other’s company but also give each other space as we have different interests in life. I’ve been doing Adriene’s 30 day Home yoga challenge and I’m hooked. I just live it! Yesterday and today I’ve spent time with my darling Ethan and Elliot as restrictions are slowly being lifted. After such a long time apart it had been such a wonderful gift to see them in person again. Xx

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    1. Hi Sue, Thank you for your thoughtful, kind words. The photos you share of the ocean and the sunrises and sunsets are breathtaking! And you do take advantage of living close by and staying healthy with your commitment to exercise.

      I know you are in a long term marriage and by now we have learned to give each other space. I am happy you were able to spend some in real life time with Ethan and Elliot. Priceless! Take care and stay well. xx

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      1. I’ve very lucky Erica to have such beauty at my doorstep and I do take advantage of combining health in a natural environment. I’m seeing my two ‘E’s again tomorrow and can’t wait. Thank you for linking up with us at #MLSTL and it was lovely looking at the beautiful tulips again. Take care and have a lovely weekend. xx

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  15. Hi Erica – love those tulips … excellent gardener husband! While yes you are lucky … it’s a brilliant part of the world to live. Your post is delightful – a reminder about our lives … we live for family, plants, the great outdoors – and then our way of expressing ourselves, describing the art we live amongst. Carry on enjoying – and stay safe – Hilary

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    1. Thank you for your lovely words, Hilary. I do appreciate my gardener husband. I try to remind myself every day of the blessings in my life. I am sometimes oblivious to my surroundings until I take photos or stop and write about the things I see. I hope you are well in your neck of the woods, Hilary. Take care.

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  16. Wow, Erica. Your tulips are simply stunning … especially the yellow one at the beginning with the red and green stripes! Your husband certainly has a talent for gardening.

    I envy your access to trails. Sigh. I dream of being back on a trail. The problem I have is that when restrictions are lifted, I won’t have anyone to hike with … Deb will be gone shortly, and Helen’s balance issues make it impossible for her to walk on any but the tamest of pathways. Double Sigh. I’ll just go back to look at your lovely tulips ❤️

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    1. Thank you for your lovely comment, Joanne. The tulips appear more beautiful and vibrant this year. My husband said it is a new variety. I suspect I am also paying more attention. The little trail area is a nine minute back and forth walk from our house. We try to do four to six laps once or twice a day. It does transport us. Many of the main trails here have also been entirely closed since social distancing is not possible on a narrow trail. Not many people know about this little trail and likely too short for some. I hope the restrictions are lifted for you, soon. As you well know it does lift our spirits to get out for a walk in nature. 🙂

      Pouring rain here today, although I will still get out. Take care, Joanne and enjoy getting lost in your world of art. ❤️

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      1. The trails have opened up again here this weekend, but quite frankly, it doesn’t help me now. With Deb leaving soon and Helen not able to handle the terrain anymore, I no longer have anyone to hike with. I had hoped the Seniors’ Club I joined a few years ago would fill that void, but it didn’t produce that new ‘best bud’ I was hoping for.

        It is sunny this morning but the rain will be moving in for a couple of days. I’m off now to do more composting of the plants in the front yard while I can. It’s back-breaking work and I’m already achy from yesterday, but it needs to be done!

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        1. You are right, Joanne. You should not go hiking alone in the woods. And more fun with a friend. I have a good, hiking, great friend and we have only virtual chatted the last few months. She is an “essential grandma” for her family and a significant number of interactions/connections as a result. Gosh, all the things we now have to think about. Good for you on getting some of the “shoulds” out of the way. I hope you are continuing to play/ create with your artwork. Take care and see you soon.💕

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    1. Thank you for your kind comment, Marty. As you know, sometimes we don’t know where the words take us until we sit down to write them. My husband said he had planted a new variety of tulips last Fall. All the colours seem more vibrant this year. I am likely paying more attention. I hope all is well in your neck of the woods. Take care.🙂

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  17. I smiled widely from your opening statement to your conclusion. Your positivity and wisdom never fail to perk up my spirits. The tulips helped as well!

    I am nodding vigorously in agreement with your statement, ‘today’s present moment is more important than the past or the future.’ The sea has set me right in that regard, just as the woods have done for you. And speaking of the woods, I love how your well-trodden path has been transformed in one month. I would like to have a calendar featuring this path as I am sure it is gorgeous in every month.

    I am moved that my words impacted you and am grateful for your link back to my post.

    Hugs from Bahia Concepcion, Baja California Sur, Mexico

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    1. Thank you for your kind, lovely comment, Lisa. Even though I write things down, I still need to remind myself daily to not take the present moment for granted. The gorgeous photos you share of the sea are breathtaking! You were the first person who mentioned how the trail has transformed in a month. My husband was not away it was the same trail. It is actually a short walk, yet it transports us into nature.

      Lisa, your words truly do impact me. I returned to your post to remind me of the exact words. After reading them, they have become part of my meditation. Thank you! I hope all is well in your part of the world. Take care. Stay safe. xx 💕

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  18. Beautiful tulips, Erica! Nature always inspires and is not fazed by this pandemic – in certain cases, it is thriving because of it. That makes me smile and makes me wish people would take notice of that and act accordingly, respectfully, and kindly to what “feeds” all of us – our bodies and our souls… Mother Earth.

    You truly live in a beautiful part of the world and it’s so important to be able to be outside during these challenging times. I’m so glad that it is finally, finally, warming up a bit. Have a wonderful weekend, my friend!

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    1. Thank you for your lovely comment, Liesbet. You are right. I also think nature, Mother Earth is thriving right now. All of the colours appear more vibrant. I don’t know whether this is because of the cleaner air, or whether I am more aware of my surroundings. Possibly, both.

      I am happy it is finally warming up for you. The recent photo I saw of you and family all bundled up in your Winter clothing made me shiver. 🙂 I hope all is well, Liesbet, and you are making progress with editing, publishing your memoir. Have a great weekend and stay well.xx

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  19. Lovely, oh so lovely… 🙂 I’ve been baking up a storm while hubby is out chopping up trees that the April’s snowstorm downed or left hanging. He’ll be busy for months with the cleanup. I get outdoors every day and walk a mile or so around our property to bask in the beauty of each new bud! ❤ Feeling blessed and grateful for all we do have. Stay safe and stay well! xo

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    1. Hi Bette, I just noticed the share on Twitter. Thank you! I am very much a novice on Twitter. I signed up years ago although I rarely check it. I am not sure how to repost or hashtag on it. I will begin to figure it out. My daughter says it is the current place to stay on top of news. If you see me do something goofy, let me know.

      You and your husband do stay very fit with clean up and walking every day. You are right, about feeling blessed. I am trying to stay in the present moment and not worry. Sometimes difficult, yet it helps where I live. Take care and stay well.❤️

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    1. Sheryl, Thank you for your kind comment. I also appreciate photos of nature and I find I slow down and breathe more deeply. I have to keep my walks up when I begin to salivate over your pictures and posts. 🙂 I end up incorporating many of your recipes into our day. I hope you are well and have a good week.

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  20. Erica, what a beautiful post – your words and the photos warmed my heart! I’m jealous of the tulips – I’ve never been able to keep one alive, let alone such a gorgeous collection. It was fun to take a walk with you and see what beauty surrounds you in your neck of the woods.

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    1. Thank you for your kind, lovely comment, Shelley. My husband and I now have something new to discuss. “The tulips.” Lol. He says he planted an entirely different type of tulip last Fall. I know very little about plants. You share such beautiful photos, Shelley. Nice, how we can visit with each other and stay connected. Have a great week and take care.

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      1. You’re welcome! LOL – we’re finding new topics to discuss too. We’re both sick of talking about the virus, which always seems to weed its way back into our conversations like a nasty weed spreads in our garden beds. LOL – lame attempt at gardening humor!
        Yes, I’m so thankful for your comments and for our mutual likes for the beauty that surrounds us in life!
        Enjoy your week and take care!

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  21. We are all getting by with a little help and wisdom from our friends. Our moments outdoors are the best. But when we come back inside, these walls feel especially confining lately. Tomorrow some of our city opens up. I am glad about it, however, we will remain cautiously waiting at home to see how things go. Continuing to wear our masks when we go into public.

    We still like each other over here, but I am thankful that PC has work and I have activities that give us time apart. Sure would like to have some tulips, too!!

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    1. Hi Leslie, Beautiful words, “a little help and wisdom from our friends.” I agree. It is surprising and wonderful how a few kind words can make a difference in my life. I am also facing a roller coaster of emotions surfacing more lately with some of the opening up. I feel and see people are becoming more complacent. Not a good thing. Thank you for visiting my neck of the woods. You make a difference, Leslie. Take care and stay well.🌹

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  22. Your tulips are glorious Erica, how lucky that they keep your hubby outside and happy. And your words are full of gratitude and presence. I can so relate to your love of nature. Love everything about this post. Keep smiling, well and staying grateful for those simple things close to home. xx 💚🙏

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    1. Thank you for your very lovely and kind words, Miriam. You say it well “grateful for those simple things close to home.” Our city will be opening up in many ways this coming week. I hear this is common around parts of our planet. I hope people will not become complacent. I have to remember to stay present. I hope all is well in your neck of the woods, Miriam. You too, keep smiling. Take care and stay well. xx ❤️

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      1. Yes, things are slowly starting to open up here too. Like you, I hope that people don’t become complacent. I know for me it’ll be a slow step to emerging. For the moment I’m quite content to cocoon a little longer in my “cave”. Take care Erica. xx

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  23. Such a lovely post Erica and those tulips!! Wow the colours are spectacular. I enjoyed the ‘recent words’ you have come across recently, from fellow bloggers and Sue’s game to play with a little one, lovely. Have a great day 🙂

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    1. Thank you for your very kind words, Sam. The tulips seem much more colourful and vibrant this year. I don’t know whether this is because I am more present or the air is cleaner? Likely, both. My husband says he planted a new variety of tulips last Fall. I do find I learn a great deal from the posts and the comments I read. Sometimes, life changing. I hope all is well with you, Sam, and your loved ones. Take care and we will stay connected.🌹🙂

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  24. These tulip pictures are amazing, Erika. I really love tulips, they are my favourite flower. We can only go outside for walks between 6am and 9am which doesn’t suit me as I am doing other things then. We are walking around our garden which fortunately is a large one.

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    1. Thank you for visiting Robbie, and your lovely comment. I also love tulips and appreciate the brief time they bloom in the Spring. I shared your 6am to 9am comment with my husband. Very interesting how different parts of our planet are doing things differently. I appreciate you sharing. Take care especially as some of the restrictions slowly lift.

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  25. Oh my goodness these pictures are beautiful. Nature is so healing & there truly is beauty in the way the cycles continue – regardless of any pandemics. As an aside, I’m actually quite chuffed that you included my little meme… x

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    1. Hi Joanne, Your quote continues to put a smile on my face. Very relatable. Thank you for your lovely comment. You also live in an area where you have access to nature and especially the ocean. I hope you are getting caught up with all of your endeavours. Take care.

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    1. Thank you, Norah, for your lovely and kind comment. Sometimes I don’t know what I will write about until I begin writing. This likely happens to you, too. My back yard is my present moment right now. I hope all is well and take care.

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  26. Such a beautiful post. Those tulips are glorious …We live near the beach and during this whole time we have been allowed out to exercise. so some days we walk our dogs to the beach – on sunny days…its about 1.5 kms away. or we take them to the football park for a run. On wet days as its now Autumn we take them in the car twice a day to the park. I give thanks to the garage and the darts room. sometimes I go out for a few games, sometimes I stay indoors and bake or read or watch tv or read blogs. Again thank you #mlstl

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    1. Thank you 3Sisters for your lovely and kind comment. I was not aware about this “allowed out to exercise” until I read posts from the blogging community and in the news. I do find it a privilege to go our for walks in our neighbourhood. It is nice how we can find activities close to home. You are right, how the options change as it gets cooler. We are in Spring and heading towards Summer. Lots of outside time. Thank you for visiting and take care.

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      1. Thank you. In some countries they are or were only allowed out for an hour a day for exercise. I couldn’t imagine how my two dogs would cope with that. We are lucky where we live. You take care also xx

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    1. Hi Lydia, Thank you for your kind comment. The ‘it takes a vineyard’ note still makes me smile. I hope all is well in your neck of the woods. Take care.

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  27. HI Erica/Erika, I’m a first time visitor to your blog, but not to #MLSTL. So happy to see the beautiful floral photographs and read your poetic words. Will pin this post and am sure to visit you again. Stay safe, be well, and lead a colorful life!

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    1. Hi Nancy, I visited your blog today and coincidentally, flowers were a theme in our posts. Your photos of the flowers were beautiful and the descriptions very interesting. Thank you for your lovely, kind comment. Take care, and yes, lead a colourful life.

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  28. Those tulips! So beautiful! And what lovely walking paths you have! I relate to your husband’s need to get outside in nature and garden. I started a garden recently too and it started out as a means to create our own food source (a little pandemic panic, I guess!). But as I’ve tended the plants, and lamented over the bugs and obsessed over whether they are getting too much water or not enough sun (and vice versa), it’s turned into more than a food source. They’re like my babies now. I talk to them and care for them as I hear the birds song and feel the sun on my face. It’s my time to connect with nature. I used to think tending a garden would be too much work, but I love my garden time now. I enjoyed your words and the words from others you shared too.

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    1. Hi Lori, It is a real treat to meet you today. I visited your blog and left with a huge smile. I greatly admire you for starting a garden. I am not a gardener at all. I just say “thank you” to my husband. I may reconsider after your description. “Babies?” Thank you for your very kind, thoughtful comment. It was nice to connect with you today. I look forward to reading more. Take care.

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  29. Every time I scroll down thru all the comments on your blog it reminds me of what a lovely person you are Erica and how invested you are in our blogging world. I loved the tulips and I love that you still like your husband. I still like mine too – we have a 2 storey house and his office is upstairs – I guess that’s his version of tulips 🙂
    Thanks too for the mention in your list of bloggers – I’m off to read a few of the others. It’s so nice when bloggers share a little bit of the love around isn’t it?
    Thanks for linking up with us at MLSTL and I’ve shared on my SM 😊

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    1. Hi Leanne, Thank you for your kind, generous comment. I could easily mention many bloggers. I highlighted some of the words that continue to resonate and stay with me long after I read them. Your words, insights always make me think and reassess some of my preconceived ideas and perceptions. A good thing. Thank you!

      I do find having some space in a house does make a difference. My husband has his man cave. We will get together for a morning walk. Usually do our own thing. In the evening we get together, often to watch a series. Just finished “Ozark.” In the middle of Season 2 “Dead to me.” Just an old, married, boring couple.

      I find the blogging community and this part of my life “A Happy Place.” You are very much part of this, Leanne. Take care and stay well.xx ❤️

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    1. Thank you for your kind, supportive comment, Mark. You are right about separate hobbies. We have always had many different interests. My husband also has his man cave so we have space from each other. We still find lots to talk about when we get together each day.

      I greatly appreciate your follow, Mark, here and on Twitter. I have not spent much time on Twitter in the past. My daughter tells me this is where I can find the most recent news. I will try to figure it out.

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  30. Your tulips are AMAZING. I saw your photos on Instagram with mouth open. Great job to your guy! And I agree, without flowers and woods and words, our life would be empty…and rather meaningless. Now that our weather has finally become spring, my guy is outside planting his tomatoes and herbs and many types of flowers. Brings us BOTH peace and joy. Me? I walk in the woods for solitude, and write for peace. xo

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    1. Thank you for your kind and thoughtful words, Pam. Everyone and everything seems to perk up with our Spring weather. Our little trail in the woods takes us approximately nine minutes to do one loop from our house. My husband and I will do a few loops together to catch up on our day. I also like to go by myself on a different route and be alone with my thoughts and often clear my head. I hear many stories where people are very limited on their time outdoors. We are very lucky here. Take care, Pam. xoxo

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  31. Those tulips are just glorious, Erica. Vibrant pops of color make springtime so beautiful. I saw “fringed” tulips for the first time when I visited Amsterdam. It seems to add some spunk to them. 🙂 Woods are words are both so refreshing to the soul. They both bring me peace. Lovely wisdom you’ve shared. Stay well! xx

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    1. Hi Amy, We were in Amsterdam about 15 years ago in September and went to a Tulip festival. Not planned. A huge Wow on the event. I don’t think I have every seen “fringed” tulips until now. I may have not noticed them. I find I am more aware of my immediate surroundings. Thank you for your very kind, thoughtful comment. I hope all is well in your neck of the woods and with your family. Take care. xx

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  32. Oh wow, Erica! The tulips are amazing with brilliant colors. I love to have them in my garden. My husband and I have different hobbies. As far as the garden, I take care of all the flowers and plants and he takes care of the lawn. We also somehow naturally divide up the chores. He always does dishes. He did it when I did the cooking. After he retired three years ago and volunteers to do all the cooking, he still does the dishes. 🙂

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    1. Thank you for your kind comment, Miriam. Especially coming from you. Your photography is always an inspiration to me. You remind me how couples seem to figure out a rhythm of life, even when life changes. We too have a system with chores. It sounds like you have an awesome husband. 🙂

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      1. Thank you, Erica. I should be more appreciative of him. 🙂 We’re not the stereotype of husband and wife. I’m more independent emotionally and he misses me a lot when I travel to see my granddaughters. 🙂

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