Will I Wake Up And Find Out All Of This Has Been A Dream?

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I have had very vivid dreams all of my life.  My dreams are in full colour and they contain elaborate story plots. When I wake up I remember all of the details of a complicated story, the colours, the smells, the emotions. 

When I wake up, I also realize it was all a dream.  

This past week, for a brief second, when I wake up I feel life at the present moment is a dream.  The present events are surreal.

I feel I may step out of the movie sets, “The Truman Show” or “Capricorn One” at any moment. 

Then reality sinks in.

When Did We Begin To Take This Pandemic Seriously?

Is it social distancing, social isolating, quarantining, shelter in place? 

Last Sunday, my husband and I made the decision to completely hunker down. 

Up until then, my husband was still going to the gym daily and I was on Day 16 of a 30 day yoga challenge at my yoga studio.

No more gyms, stores, visiting with family and friends.  This is a serious pandemic and we need to take it seriously.

“You are either part of the solution or you are part of the problem,” my husband’s quote.  Sometimes he does have something smart to say.

Many Things Have Not Changed

We are fortunate we live in a home and we are comfortable with basic necessities.

Everyone in our immediate family is healthy.

Spring has arrived. We have access to trails and many walking areas in our immediate neighbourhood.

A Few Things Have Changed

We have been advised the Half Corked Marathon will either be cancelled or postponed. We Won the Lottery! The Golden Ticket!  We are staying positive and still in training mode.

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Training in New Zealand

 

We had tickets to a James Taylor/Bonnie Raitt concert in April.  This event is also cancelled or postponed.  Cancellations are common around the globe right now. 

My early evening walk is usually filled with the sound of children laughing and playing at a park nearby.  Yesterday, all of the parks were closed. Yesterday, the park was completely empty and eerily quiet.  

 

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I met with my best friend last Saturday, and for the first time in 50 years we did not hug good bye. We giggled and stepped back.

         Inside, I am choked up.

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We usually have a lot of interaction with our daughters and their families.  The grandchildren are 4 weeks, 23 months, 4 and 6 year old.  They are very huggy, smoochy, drooly, and they touch everything.  They would not understand boundaries.  Our goal is to help keep everyone healthy.  We FaceTime and Video Chat.  This is temporary and this is important.  I put on a brave, happy face and I tell them this will only last for a few weeks.  

         Inside, I am choked up.

The Question:   Do You Recognize The Common Denominator?

  • I have continued my yoga practice and I am doing a 30 Day Challenge with “Adriene’s Yoga” on YouTube.   Thank you to Deb The Widow Badass   for this great recommendation.  I love and miss my yoga family at Found City Yoga.  How Hot Yoga Changed My Life

 

 

  • Thank you to Marty, Snakes in the Grass  for your witty, humorous posts, always.  Your last post reminded me how I should keep a thermometer easily accessible.  I hunted through the house and I found the thermometer we keep for when we watch the children.  I tested it twice.  36.6 C each time.  Whew.

 

  • I am going on longer and more frequent walks.  Thank you to Mark, Swinged Cat  for sharing information about the Voice Recorder app and Voice Memo app.  When a bolt of inspiration hits me or I need a simple reminder, I can just press on the big red button and record my thoughts.
  • Janis’s post Retirementally Challenged  “In this time…” contained many gems that resonated with me.  I copy/pasted her last paragraph into a Gratitude/Positives file. Thank you, Janis, for your wise words “….we don’t have to distance ourselves from much that nourishes us.”
  • Pam’s words Rough Wighting  warmed my heart. “I wish we could all meet in a safe place and hug each other and talk for hours. Well, I suppose that’s what we do right here in the blogosphere!”  Thank you, Pam, for reinforcing the importance of connections.
  • Thank you to Laurie Meditations in Motion  for her words “we’ve got this. One step at a time.” 
  • Thank you to Liesbet Roaming About for always reminding me how little we need to lead a happy, simple life.  We are all living “a life less ordinary right now.”  In your last post you discussed the positives, negatives and reality of the present events.  Your phrase “our solution is our flexibility” has stayed with me.  Thank you.
  • Anabel Glasgow Gallivanter shares a great deal of history and information about Scotland.  The photos on her site are breathtaking.  Thank you, Anabel, for helping us plan our next vacation.  You have helped put Scotland high on our list.
  • Jo Restless Jo shares posts containing stunning photography of exceptionally beautiful, historical buildings.  Thank you, Jo, for reminding me how humankind has weathered many challenges over the past thousands of years.

     This too shall pass.

Ten minute walk from our house

The Answer:  “You” Are The Common Denominator.

I am sharing a quote from Suzanne, Picture Retirement  “I have always been grateful for my connections throughout the blogging community, but now, more than ever.  There is so much sharing, caring and outright humour being delivered to my inbox daily.”

I strongly agree with Suzanne.  I am entertained.  I learn something new.  I laugh.  I cry.  You touch my heart.  

This Is Not A Dream

I realize when I wake up in the morning, all of this is not a dream.  This is our present day reality, changing by the hour. We are also in the early stages of this pandemic.

I have a great deal to be thankful for always and especially right now.

People have been very kind and thoughtful.  Almost everyone in our neck of the woods is respecting the social distancing, social isolating guidelines. 

We are going to get through this together. 

I appreciate the connections in my personal life and in the global community.

Please continue writing, sharing and connecting.  You will not always know when you have made a difference in someone’s life.

         Thank you for making a difference in mine.

 

How are you connecting with friends and family?

Has someone recently made a difference in your life?

 

Postscript:

I shared only a few posts from blogger friends.  I could easily include gems from every single post I read.  

I just finished listening to a very good, empowering podcast.  “The Tim Ferriss Show #414:  Jack Kornfield – How to Find Peace Amidst COVID-19, How to Cultivate Calm in Chaos.”  

A Bonus Gift:  “People Be Weird”  

Kate’s witty posts Coffee Kat Blog often bring a unique perspective to daily life and the human condition.  She sometimes adds  a “people be weird” in her post.

I was walking by a house yesterday and a couple, likely husband and wife, were quibbling about whose turn it was to take their dog for a walk.  The husband yells out how “the dog had better not poop.  I am not picking up dog poop.  If the dog poops, I am calling 911!”  No humour in his voice.

Likely cabin fever and too much togetherness already setting in.

Yes, Kate, “people be weird.”

I still can’t stop giggling.

 

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137 thoughts on “Will I Wake Up And Find Out All Of This Has Been A Dream?”

  1. Thank you for all the terrific resources. Getting outside is key to my sanity. It can’t be wrong to stroll through the trails. Stay positive. Be well.

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    1. I am taking advantage of the trails near our house right now. Very few people are outside and everyone is keeping their distance in our neighbourhood. We may not be able to leave our house if things change. The Spring and fresh area is very precious. Like you say, key to my sanity. Thank you for sharing your thoughts, Antoinette. Yes, stay positive and healthy. xx

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  2. I am so grateful for the blogging community. I can’t turn to the TV as I might if I were recovering from surgery. It’s full of gloom, doom and inane reruns. Concentrating on reading takes effort. No hugs from friends. Just the virtual support from fellow bloggers all over the world sharing the same emotions. Almost makes me feel normal! 🙂 Love ya!

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    1. Yes, the virtual support is really uplifting, Kate. I find words/thoughts from thoughtful bloggers resonate even more with me now. I likely have more time to think and ruminate and I want to try to stay positive and ‘almost normal.’ I look forward to seeing your posts in my email. You make me smile and I appreciate your observations. We will try and stay ‘almost normal’ together. 💕

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  3. We are lucky that these days there are many ways to stay in touch with people so that social distancing should not be mental distancing. I still have my grandkids as both parents are still working…on our neighborhood walks we have seen many families..kids, dogs, bikes and scooters…thank goodness it’s been nice and sunny to help us all along. I think back on our last lunch and am so thankful we managed to get together and enjoy each others company for a bit. Take Care

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    1. Our Saturday date really had an impact with me, too. The reality of it all sunk in with the “no hug.” Our neighbourhood has been almost completely empty outside, when it is usually filled with children and bikes. You are a very wise woman, Eduarda! “Social distancing is not mental distancing.” Possibly, when you don’t have the children we can set up a coffee/video chat date this coming weekend. Keep yourself healthy and we will stay in touch.❤️

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    1. You are definitely part of this wavelength, community of sharing and caring, Jill. 💕 I find words, posts, gems from other bloggers are resonating more and not leaving me. It could be because I don’t have as much other noise in my life. It could also be because many of the stories are laced with more emotion. Thank you for your kind and encouraging words, Jill, today and always. Stay well! 💗

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  5. I think this current crisis makes you appreciate small things, beautiful weather, garden birds , spring flowers and most of all the internet. We are supposed to be staying indoors but we have been busy sharing memories of last years walks.

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    1. Very true, Anne. I think most of us appreciate our lives and yet, this crisis brings it to a new level. I love when you share past memories. I have only met you this past year, so your memories and even past posts are new to me. Keep sharing! And you and your husband, stay healthy!

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  6. Oh, man, talk about keeping up with the Ericas’ in the world. Now I have to somehow up my game and also get a cool bear-themed thermometer too. Just when I thought social competition had slowed in these self-quarantined times, the cool kids are once again showing us the neato things they have, sigh.

    A beautiful post. Thanks for reminding all of about what’s important, not just for our immediate families but for humanity itself. People be weird indeed. As Sanjay Gupta put it so well over the weekend, ““How I behave affects your health,” he intoned on air, offering a mantra for our times. “How you behave affects my health” Keep smiling on that yoga mat, Erica! – Marty

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    1. Marty, You are an inspiration to me! I love reading your posts and getting a glimpse into your life and your perspective. I had not thought about the thermometer until you mentioned it. I am glad it works, since finding batteries may have been a challenge. You may have saved my husband’s and my life. Does this mean we are forever indebted to you?

      A great quote from Sanjay Gupta. You and Gorgeous stay healthy!

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      2. Erica, I meant to comment on your canceled James Taylor/Bonnie Raitt concert. That one hurts. It’s been years since I’ve seen JT, and I had hoped that maybe this year (if he performed nearby) that we could go. I’m not sure if that’ll happen now obviously. We have tickets to a Steve Hackett concert here that was postponed, and I do hope he fulfills his promise to return. These are small concerns, obviously. But they are also our last opportunities to see some of these artists before they decide to retire from touring. I hope your concert is rescheduled.

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        1. Marty, We saw James Taylor about ten years ago and it was an excellent concert. I think some artists get better with age, or more multi-layered. Of course, he has always been a wonderful artist. We saw Leonard Cohen a few times over the years and his voice did change somewhat, more gravelly? Difficult to put into words. His poetry and music definitely evoke emotions. I don’t know whether you had the opportunity to see him live. A very charismatic presence.

          I just now looked up Steve Hackett…….lead guitarist for Genesis. Wow! The word “postponed” is a good sign. Take care, Marty!

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  7. It does indeed feel like we are living in some sort of dream. We too are social distancing and only going for walks where there aren’t many people and keeping a safe distance. Thanks for highlighting a bunch of new bloggers. It’ll certainly give me a nice diversion and new reading material. Stay healthy 😊

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    1. Hi Ingrid, I am finding posts/words/gems are resonating even more with me lately. It could be because there is less noise in my life. More of the posts have emotional layers to them, too. I hope you managed to stock up okay in the RV. I love the stunning photos you share. A beautiful part of my day. Thank you for sharing your thoughts and we will stay connected. Yes, stay healthy!🙂

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  8. I feel completely clued in with you and your blogging community. I’ve read all of those posts. Nothing better than the sense of belonging that comes in times like these. Stay safe, be well. My mantra for these confusing times.

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    1. I find many of the posts are resonating even more with me now. I agree, Ally, on the sense of belonging when we connect. It is a good reminder how every single person makes a difference, always and especially right now. Your mantra is perfect! Stay safe, be well. 💕

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  9. What a great post, Erica. I’ll be sure to check out the links you shared. I agree that it does seem like a dream sometimes (although I’ve been saying I want to wake up from the nightmare since around November 2016). Thanks!

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  10. Thank the stars for the blogging community that keeps me (almost) sane. Strange times indeed and so essential we do whatever we can to abide by rues and regulations and always remember those who are in the front-line and can’t cope with those who continue willy nilly – I’m talking about those in hospitals and clinics and so on, let alone all others who are working at shops and stores. Just about lock down here … not allowed onto the beaches. Keep well and safe Erica, you, family and friends.

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    1. We are almost lock down here, too, Susan. Many people cooperating and unselfish. Always a few who don’t get it, or in denial, or… Our neighbourhood usually has many children running around and on bikes. Almost no one out there the last few days except for a couple of people on a fitness walk or a dog walk. I do hear how other areas in our city do have more people milling about. Susan, last night I shared your son’s video with my husband and we watched it right to the end. My husband had a great big belly laugh. You were the highlight of our evening. If you could pass this along to your son and say thank you. Also, not donating. Lol. You and your family stay healthy. xx

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  11. Hi Erica – what a lovely post with lots of brilliant links for us to look at. I love the positive attitude we have around the blogging fraternity … with interesting, informative posts – and the comments always adding something – take care and enjoy those walks and that time with hubby … Hilary

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    1. Hi Hilary, Thank you for your kind and lovely comment. You are right about continuing with the positive attitude, sharing and connecting. We are continuing to enjoy the walks, even to make sure we get a mental breather. I look forward to continuing to connect. Stay healthy. xx

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  12. While I don’t believe God cast this down on us, I do believe He might be using coronavirus to force us all to just slow down. To reflect. To smell the roses in our own backyards.

    For years after my tonsillectomy at age 10, I imagined that I would wake up on the gurney post-surgery and realize everything after that had happened since had been one long dream. And I would be 10 again, with a very sore throat. I was okay with the idea of waking up for awhile but now days, some 50 years later, I don’t want to wake up and be that little girl stirring from anesthesia.

    I’ve been saying ‘this too shall pass’ and I feel certain it will. Good for you guys to shelter in place!

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    1. “This too shall pass” has been a common saying around our family, although it may take a little longer this time. I love seeing and reading about some of the historical sites and buildings in the world. They remind me how humankind has weathered storms. I find our neighbourhood is eerily quiet. You are right, Leslie, how we are now forced to slow down and smell the roses in our backyards. You are an inspiration with your fitness goals, Leslie. You and your family stay healthy and we will continue to connect.

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  13. Dr Sanjay Gupta, a chief medical correspondent for CNN, says it best: “Act like you already have the virus.” Think about that. Ask yourself if you are doing your best then respond by doing better. Now is the time to be selfless not selfish. Erica/Erika always says: “My future self will thank me”.

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  14. Erica, I must share this – my dreams are rarely pleasant, even when there is some celebration going on in the dream, I tend to lose my purse or jewelry or some person who seems elusive or the most recurring one is – I am surrounded by water and can’t reach home, whatever route I try to take, water comes gushing toward me!
    Yet I convert those dreams into positive poetry, even darker moments turn around and tell me – look around – the sun is shining, the flowers are smiling and hope is all around us, if we see. This too shall pass. No natural calamity has stayed forever; it’s our resilience, our love for life that binds us despite social distancing. Stay happy and take care dear friend. Thanks for sharing lovely pictures and thoughts. 🙂

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    1. Balroop, your dreams sound scary and exhausting. Your feelings run deep and your emotions are reflected in your beautiful poetry. I love your comforting words “this too shall pass. No calamity has stayed forever.” Many lessons always and especially right now. Thank you for connecting and sharing your wisdom. You and your loved ones also stay happy and healthy.xx

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  15. Thank you, Erica/ Erika, for this positive post. The blogging community has been wonderful. Your thermometer is cool 🙂 Hopefully you won’t need to use it. Stay safe and be well. Namaste!

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  16. Hello Erica, I have been practising Yoga with Adriene through YouTube for the last two or three years. I love her approach and find it so convenient to practise at home. Many have felt overwhelmed and anxious about the current situation however, there can be many positives to taking time out of the world ‘literally’ and staying in the comfort of our own environment. It is a good time for self-reflection and viewing this time as a bonus time. Yes the negative for me is not being able to see my grandsons but FaceTime is not a bad substitute. Although there is no substitute for a real hug!! I’m a person who likes to hug so I am finding it difficult to break that habit. I ran with my Saturday Sisters last Saturday and like you, it was the first time in many years we didn’t share a hug when we met and when we parted. We will get through these times and hopefully have learned some life lessons. Namaste and I will think of you when I do my yoga practise today 🙂

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    1. Hi Sue, Up until now I haven’t really paid attention to online yoga. Adriene’s voice is calm and soothing. The classes are different every day and I always feel better afterwards. I am transported into the land of Zen. You are right, Sue, how this is a good time for self-reflection. I find there is significantly less noise, especially if I distance myself from social media and constant doom and gloom. I also agree with you on staying positive and appreciating the life lessons. Thank you for being part of the uplifting and positive wave-length, especially right now. 💕

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  17. Hello, Erica! Isn’t wonderful how we can reach out and connect with each other through our blogs? My half-written post for tomorrow is about that exact thing. I can’t imagine the heartache you must feel about not being able to cuddle with your grandkids, but – as we all know – it’s temporary and certainly it’s for the best. Your thermometer gave me a good laugh! I hope it continues to register 36.6 C! Stay well, my friend!

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    1. You are right, Janis. Connections seem to mean a great deal, especially right now when we cannot really be together with many of our loved ones in person. Thank goodness for Marty and his post about the thermometer. Chuck and I are forever indebted to him. 🙂You and Paul stay well, and we will stay connected. 💕

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    1. You are right, Donna. I have seen some of the comments you have placed on other sites. You have mentioned Facetime, Video Chat, Zoom, Skype. There is the old fashioned telephone lol, I am not a great phone talker. We are lucky to have access to technology. We are also at the beginning of this Pandemic. I am consciously trying to keep it day to day and not look too far ahead. Not concerned as much for me as I am for many others. We will stay connected. xx

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  19. Great post. Every single one of us is being inconvenienced at the moment, but this is so much bigger than that so yes, now is the time to be selfless and to hunker down wherever possible. For every person who has complained about the isolating nature of the internet it’s now showing it’s value in allowing us virtual connections when we need them the most.

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    1. Hi Joanne, This is an entirely new challenge for everyone. You are right about the Internet. I saw someone mentioning they were having virtual drinks with another couple while Video chatting. We had planned to meet friends on Saturday we haven’t seen in months. Of course, this is cancelled. I may propose a chat over a glass of wine, over the Internet. I could stay in my pyjama bottoms and no one would be the wiser.😉

      You have had an extra challenging few weeks, Joanne. Be kind to yourself. Hugs. 💕

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    1. Anabel, I mean it sincerely when I wrote how Scotland was now high on our travel list thanks to your posts! I hope you are still able to get outside. You and your family take care and stay healthy.xx

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      1. We can you out once a day for exercise – it’s safer to stick to local streets rather than the canal or river where the paths are populated by inconsiderate joggers. Also shopping for food and to help the vulnerable (my mum, whom I’m worried sick about). I wish we could do as your title suggests and wake up to find it’s a bad dream.

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  21. Hi Erica – it’s definitely a weird time to be alive. I was very blasé about it all to begin with, then I realized that it’s serious and I need to step up. I’m disappointed in all the things I can’t do – and especially that all visits from our children and grandgirls are halted indefinitely. I’m going to have to get MUCH better at video chatting (that’s one goal I’ve set myself). I’m also really appreciative of my blog and the connection it brings while I’m at home. I also love the fact that I live away from a major city, that I have a husband and home I love – so isolation is more appealing. We have lovely walks, fresh air, power, water, food, wifi, etc etc

    I also shared this quote on FB the other day that is such a great reminder of how blessed we actually are:
    “Honestly, how privileged are so many of us that during this pandemic, we can just stay warm at home,reading, working, still being educated, creating, talking to our loved ones, with little worries and a fridge stocked with food? Do remind yourself to be grateful today.”

    So, despite it all, I’m grateful – and we’re definitely all part of the solution – stay well my friend xx (virtual hug!)

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    1. Hi Leanne, I think most of us were not sure where all of this was heading a couple of months ago. You are right about the kids and grandkids. I don’t want to get emotional when I do video chat. Not fair to the kids. I just continue to tell myself, we want everyone to stay healthy.

      A beautiful quote on how lucky we are. Thank you for sharing, Leanne. Stay healthy and we will stay connected. A virtual hug! xx

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  22. I really like how you said “We are going to get through this together.” Together is the key. We’re in this together. And we’re social distancing not just for ourselves, but for each other, so we can get through this together.

    You are right: Together we stand (though physically distant)!

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  23. Oh my, I have dreams exactly like you do with color and elaborate plots but mine are nightmares!! Sounds like you’re staying busy and not being bored as I have been reading lost of people are bored. Thank goodness for FaceTime as my grandbabies live in another state. Seems some are following the suggestion to stay inside and don’t socialize but others are not. I know this will pass but how long will it take?

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    1. Hi Dee, I also have nightmares. I used to have extra vivid nightmares as a child. The kind where you pinch yourself to wake yourself up. Possibly you can relate to this, Dee? Thank you for reminding me how our children and grandchildren live relatively close to us. We have had the opportunity and privilege to spend time with them each week. I try to put a positive spin on things, although, I am with you. What the heck with some people? Back to my wise husband (rare lol) ‘you are either part of the solution or you are part of the problem.’ Thanks for sharing your thoughts. Stay safe and healthy.

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  24. How wonderful it would be if we could all wake up from this nightmare. Perhaps if more hunkered down, the morning would come more quickly. Stay safe and well. I’m so sorry you’ll miss the half-corked marathon. Maybe your chance will just be postponed.

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    1. You say it really well, Norah, on how if more people hunkered down. I realize everyone is cancelling and missing events. As long as we can keep more people from getting ill. I hope you are well and staying safe and healthy. We will stay connected.

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  26. Erica, you are so right in your observation that this seems like a dream. All the activities and social get togethers of our normal lives have to be put aside for the time being. Strange though it may seem to stay home and away from everyone day after day, we are the lucky ones. My heart goes out to the essential workers — the health care workers, the long term care home employees, the grocery store clerks, the truck drivers, and so on who have to keep working and risk having the virus transmitted to them so that the rest of us can stay home and be safe. I agree that it is our job to be part of the solution, not part of the problem.

    Jude

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    1. I agree with you Jude, on how we are the lucky ones. I know a number of essential workers and they are already getting worn out and working longer hours and still going home to young children. Many are working under short staffed conditions let alone the risk of transmission and then going home to their families. Thank you for bringing attention to this. Reading your comment reminds me how I have heard somewhere on a Canadian news site where Canada is/was working with the concept of peer pressure to get more/everyone on board. Things are evolving hourly. Thanks for reading and checking in.

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  27. YOU are making a difference as well, Erica! You had me smile throughout your post, thanks to your gratitude and positive attitude. I know it’s hard for you to not be able to socialize in person, especially with (new) family members, yet, you remain focused on the good. That last quote is priceless! All that guy has to do is pick up the dog poop as usual and wash his hands after touching the public trash can.

    The more I think about it, the more I believe that the social and economical changes during COVID-19 are worse/harder than the actual being sick part. For most people anyway. It’s that change in lifestyle and freedom that is driving people mad. For Mark and me, there are inconveniences, but we are used to living 24/7 in a very small space and go on walks in the deserted woods with our dog, as usual.

    Yes, this too shall pass. Thank you so much for mentioning me and my blog in your post. Gratitude! 🙂

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    1. Thank you, Liesbet. You are always a wise woman and I appreciate your perspective. You made a key point on the ripple effect of everything shut down. How will people make their rent payments, mortgage payments, food for their families when not working. The economic repercussions. Many small businesses have already closed their doors. They just closed The Empress today. Iconic hotel in downtown Victoria. My coping mantra and priority is dealing with today, and keeping everyone healthy, to the best of our abilities. On my end of things and in my part of the world, people are very concerned and for the most part taking things seriously and staying home. Although it is almost still a mini vacation for some people from work and school. The changes have only escalated in our area over the last couple of weeks.

      Liesbet, people love you and your blog for many reasons. As a wise woman told me, ‘stay flexible.’ We will stay connected and take care and stay healthy.🙂

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  28. Erica, thanks for the mention. It really has been a godsend to wake up to such informative, enlightening, reassuring and often funny stories written by people I feel as though I know. Who needs Zoom when you have Word Press. My ‘coping’ post comes out tomorrow. Surprisingly, things are going well.

    I have read most of the post you mentioned above and love those bloggers, but will make a point to read the others asap. Sorry about your marathon and concert tickets. I know you were looking forward to both events. The good news is that there will be more of same in our future. As others have said, this too shall pass.

    I love the Gupta quote and desperately wish that others would consider my health as much as I am considering theirs. As I write this there is a large gathering of recent arrivals from New York sitting by our community swimming pool. It was the last remaining community amenity still open. Hopefully the Management company will finally understand the need to shut it down. There always has to be a few bad apples…

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    1. I know you usually put a positive spin on things, Suzanne, although what the heck is with the travellers in the community swimming pool!? Some people just do not get it.

      I really love when you summed up how we are fortunate to receive these witty, smart posts in our inbox. I do appreciate the gems from every post, even if it just something that makes me smile. I felt compelled to share how every single person is making a difference in our lives in some way. For some, it would help if they stayed out of the pool.🤨

      Cancelling (possibly postponing) the marathon and concert is minor in the scheme of things. Everyone’s life is affected right now. I also really like the Gupta quote.

      I look forward to reading your “coping” post. Take care Suzanne and we will stay in touch.

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  29. We will get better at it. Your comment on the themometer made me laugh. I had to by one and then I had to ask the chemist what a normal temp was! Ha! 3 kids and I’ve always used the hand on forehead method. Ha….It will be fine. But it will be hard in countries where the govt doesn’t provide a welfare safety net very well. That’s what we need to think about when we rebuild. (Or protest and demand now) #MLSTL

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    1. I appreciate your comment, Lydia. We are all wrapping our minds around a new, changing world. I had not even thought about a thermometer until Marty, from Snakes in the Grass mentioned it. It is likely one of the first questions you will be asked over the phone. ‘What is your temperature.’ And, now that I think about it, temperatures are constantly checked at airports and on cruise ships. I also Googled what is the heathy range. You made me smile on the ‘hand on forehead method.’ I also still use this method. I love your word “rebuild.” It has such a positive feel. Thank you for sharing your thoughts. Take care and stay healthy. 🙂

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  30. You covered a lot of territory here, Erica, visiting from #MLSTL (been a while)! USA got behind in the “hunker down at home” scenario and it’s almost too late. But you are right, we will survive this. I also refuse to believe the media’s description of “our new normal.” It’s a temporary normal. Be well and enjoy your time!

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    1. Hi Terri, I think I have thanked you before for the book you wrote on photography. I have it on my ereader and I have read through it a few times. I appreciate your beautiful photos each week. Yes, we will get through this together. Thank you for visiting. You and your loved ones stay safe and healthy.

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  32. Great post. I have started with Adriene’s yoga two days ago. The weather is still warm so I practise outside on my deck and am lucky enough to have the opportunity to walk outdoors with no risk of being near others.

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    1. Hi Serena, I finished Day 8 of the 30 day Home challenge and it was almost completely meditation and a few stretches. It seems to vary every day and I enjoy losing myself in it. Great on taking advantage of the outdoors. Thank you for visiting and stay healthy.

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  33. These are strange times we are living now. Who could have ever guessed?!

    My heart breaks for all the hardship that this is causing as all non-essential businesses in Ontario are forced to close effective tonight. People are scared.

    I’m scared.

    However in the middle of all this, I too realize how lucky I am compared to so many others. I have you and the rest of our blogging community. This has been a life line at various stages over the years I’ve been blogging, and I think now, more than ever, we are appreciating the bonds we have made 💕

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    1. Joanne, I can feel your emotion in your writing voice. I woke up this morning and it was ‘oh, ya, it would be a good day except for this s….. virus.’ Reality sinking in. You are right, I appreciate the bonds in my personal life and in the blogging community, especially right now. We will stay connected. You and your loved ones stay healthy.💕

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      1. If you’re like me (and I’m guessing you are), you’re worrying about your kids and how they are managing through this crisis.

        I’m trying not to be a home hen and poke at them every day, but it’s hard. Both of my sons are the suck-it-up-and-bear-it kind and we don’t know there’s a problem with them until it becomes a crisis.
        So far both are claiming to be ok, no cabin fever yet as they work from home.
        … but still I worry … this is the part of parenthood I wasn’t prepared for.

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        1. You are totally right, Joanne, it is when I start thinking about the kids that I begin to go into a dark place. I almost don’t want to Face Time since I am holding in my emotions and I don’t want them to worry or feel uncomfortable. I find they also worry about us because we are in the category of the older population. Overall, we stay connected, keep it light, yet keep reinforcing priorities…….Stay mentally and physically healthy……..and do you have enough food. Yes, a Mother always! Looking forward to connecting with you soon. xx

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  34. Hi Erica, what a lovely post and I could have written it myself as your emotions and thoughts mirror my own in many ways. I too am choked up much of the time 😦

    I have also started yoga with Adriene this week and love it. It helps give my days some focus and it feels good to be actively doing something different.

    My three girls and I had a group Facetime chat tonight, we made sure we got the time right for our daughter in UK, so it was our evening and her morning. I got to see all three daughters and their babies all at once and it made my heart sing instead of feeling choked up ❤️

    I love our blogging community and always learn new things from my blogging friends, Take care and I wish you and your family all the best!

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    1. Hi Deb, I get it on the choked up. I try not to go into a dark place and think about the effects on the children. We are still in the early stages and this must all eventually turn around again.

      You did make me smile about yoga with Adriene. I will have my blogging friends all on mats beside me today and feel our collective energy. I finished #8 yesterday on the 30 day Home series. Every day is different and this was mostly meditation and stretching. I get a little teary at the end since it was such a treat to be transported mentally and physically for awhile.

      Love it on your Group FaceTime! Makes my heart sing, too.

      You and your loved ones stay healthy. We will stay connected.

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    1. Hi Chris, At this stage I am trying to stay positive and do whatever is recommended by the experts to keep everyone healthy. I look forward to reading your post since you often share gems to help us move forward. Stay healthy and we will stay connected.

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  36. I feel like this is a dream or a movie, too…then I realize that it is real life and we’re all in it together. Everywhere. Thanks for so many resources and links. Right now electronic communication is what we have. Like you, I miss my little grandkids so much, but we are all safe in our homes and face-time to stay in touch. Hopefully sooner rather than later we can be looking forward to a new beginning. Shared on SM #MLSTL

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    1. Hi Candi, You say it really well on hopefully sooner than later. We are fortunate to be able to connect with family while everyone stays safe. Thank you for visiting and sharing your thoughts. Take care and stay safe and healthy.

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  37. I wish it was a dream Erica, we’ve just started lockdown in the Uk. But some people (like my 88yo in laws) are not taking this seriously & are part of the problem. Social media has come into it’s own in this climate enabling us to chat and see fun stuff instead of all doom & gloom. Take care. x
    #MLSTL

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    1. I agree with you, Lorraine, on trying to not get caught up in the doom and gloom 24/7. Most of the people in our area do ‘get it’ and yet, there are people either in denial or don’t understand the consequences of their actions. We are almost completely in lockdown with only essential services. I am not familiar with all of the new terminology. It sounds like we are the same when trying to keep our spirits up amidst this new territory. Thank you for sharing your thoughts. Take care and stay healthy. xx

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  38. It really is a bit dreamlike, especially those dreams where everywhere is all deserted. WE are in almost lockdown here in Ireland. I have been working from home for the last 10 days or so. Only my wife, who works in a hospice, has been travelling to and from work. Our teenage kids are doing fine … even if our son is complaining about the lack of ironed clothes. very first world, eh!

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    1. Hi Enda, Nice to meet you! I visited your blog site to find out your name and I got lost in your interesting, fun posts. I greatly appreciate the follow and I have subscribed to your blog. I look forward to reading and connecting.

      We have an almost complete lockdown on the West Coast of Canada. I think I read the term “peer pressure.” Most of the people here are staying home except for the essential services. Unfortunately, there are some people either in denial, uninformed or…..?

      Your wife is definitely part of the essential services and she is greatly appreciated. I caught the “eh.” I don’t know if it is a coincidence or intentional. It did make me smile. Thank you for visiting and sharing your thoughts.

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      1. Hi Erika — and Erica — thaks so much for connecting and reading. It’s great to have it reaffirmed so positively that there is a connectedness aspect to blogging. The eh was, eh, intentional, right enough. I just thought it amusing that our little man was complaining about his hotel room service, essentially! It is good to shield our kids as much as possible, but a llittle persepctive doesn’t go amiss either!

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  39. The world hasn’t anything like this in modern history. Unprecedented.
    Hundreds of thousands of people are in untold hardship.
    Take care. Stay safe.
    (MLSTL participant)
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    2. This is definitely a new world for us. I am trying to schedule in News reports versus the 24/7. You said it well, Pradeep, “unprecedented.” Thank you for sharing your thoughts and stay well!

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    1. It was a little bizarre again this morning when I woke up. My first thought was, this is going to be a good day. And then, oh ya, darn, I forgot about the virus for a split second. Reality hits me.

      I think everyone dreams and some of us actually remember our dreams. Interesting about your vivid dreams filled with symbolism. Take care. I hope you and your loved ones stay safe and healthy.

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  41. Hi Erica, this does seem like a strange dream. I first felt that way when I noticed that there are almost no cars on the road. We live on a fairly busy street and there are just no cars. it is a good sign that people here are staying home! Thanks for sharing your insight and stay well!

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    1. Hi Michele, It is eerily quiet in our neighbourhood and on our streets, too. We have stayed home for about 10 days now and only venture out for a walk. I love how you put a positive spin on this saying “it is a good sign.” I agree with you. Thank you for sharing your thoughts and stay well!

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  42. It’s lovely to know I am not alone… Hubby and I also self-quarantined earlier than many others. It’s scary when you realize that your home is a “risk target” area (hubby is a risk target & I could unknowingly carry it in). Anyway, we are in day 14; our state only went mandatory 2 days ago. And today, as I dropped groceries off for my SIL (she now has no other way to get groceries), i noticed her facility has a full set of construction workers working. I almost screamed out loud – and it made me realize that many people are not following the now-mandated shelter-in-place to flatten the curve. I even have some FB friends who still insist it’s over-reaction. I know – stop looking at social media! Anyway – I too have found Yoga with Adriene. My goal is 3 classes a week. And today I will get out and walk the dog… its finally not 45 and rainy. And yes, I will pick up the poop.

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    1. Hi Pat, You wrote exactly the scenario at our house. Before our self-quarantine we were around many people and sometimes in close quarters at gyms and yoga studios. We did not want to risk passing things onto other people and completely self isolated. I do wonder about some of the ambiguous rules with construction sites. You did make me smile with the poop comment. Thank you for sharing your thoughts. We will stay connected and stay healthy.

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  43. Your post gave me goosebumps, Erica, and that was before I got to the part where you share what other bloggers have shared (I STILL haven’t found my thermometer). I also am a vivid dreamer and remember many of them in the middle of the night, as well as when I wake up in the morning. My guy many times doesn’t want to hear them, because they’re full of details (and can go on forever) and they’re weird, so he worries about me. 🙂 But, like you, when I first wake up I forget about this strange world we live in now – GLOBALLY. And when I remember, I think, “Science fiction turns Real.” But as you demonstrate so beautifully here, we don’t feel isolated because we share with each other in the blogosphere our thoughts, our activities, our lives.
    We are also hunkered down and not seeing our daughter and her family. The kids (7, 9, 10) keep texting, sending photos, and calling. In an hour we’re Zooming with the whole family PLUS our son-in-law’s parents sequestered in FL. Should be interesting. Lastly, thanks for inspiring me with your yoga youtubing. I did a yoga session from a local studio’s Facebook Live video, and it was great. Namaste. And huge hugs.

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    1. Hi Pam, The Saturday right before we began self isolating, I met with my long term friend, and we discussed how I used to always share these long, detailed dreams with her on our walk to school. My husband is the same as yours where he tries to be a patient listener and I see his eyes glaze over.

      I used one of your suggestions on a Video Chat with the 4 and 6 year old yesterday. I read a couple of books and left out words and phrases. They loved listening and interacting filling in the blanks. I hope your Zoom meeting went well with the family. I will be trying out Zoom for the first time this afternoon. The yoga is giving focus to part of my day where I can just lose myself for awhile. As you know, we always feel better afterwards. Huge Hugs! Stay well. We will stay connected.💕

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      1. Zoom last night was iffy. We had three different parties (my daughter’s family/ her husband’s parents/ and me and my guy. It kept freezing. But we realized that my daughter’s mischievous 9-year-old was Zooming us on his Ipad (from their house) also, and we think that’s why it was off and on. ;-0 Hope it went well for you. This morning I did 80 minutes yoga following a teacher on Facebook Video. It made me feel soooo much better.
        What a fun idea, to READ a book and leave out words or phrases that the kids had to fill in the blank. I’m going to try that next time! I wrote a story for each of my CA grandboys with fill-in-the-blanks in each story. We’ll see how they like it. xoxo

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        1. Zoom went quite well, all adults. Still not too sure when I can talk and who can hear me. Another option for us. I am learning about many people doing online yoga classes. I always feel we are one community, one collective energy spread out all over the world. Stay healthy and we will stay connected. xoxo

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  44. My dreams are often vivid as well, Erica! Just last week I had one that I felt the need to write down and it was a few pages long. My husband commented that he couldn’t believe how I can remember all the details, and I told him that I hadn’t even written down all the details that I remembered. lol.

    Yes, this does feel like a surreal nightmare and that it would all be better if we could just wake up. It didn’t seem to happen rather suddenly. My daughter’s high school was closed for two weeks and is now closed for the rest of the school year. I’m glad that you were able to find a place online to still be able to take yoga classes. I’ve heard of her, but haven’t checked it out.

    We are trying to take outdoor walks on the non-rainy days (far from people). I am trying to remind myself to take in the beauty of spring. I remember blogging last month about how humans are social creatures while having no clue that in less than a week a huge part of that would suddenly be cut off. I’m so thankful that I have the blogging community!!

    Sending you happy and healthy vibes during this crazy time. xx

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    1. Hi Amy, Our schools are all closed for the rest of the year, too. Re: Adriene’s yoga, she has a calm voice and easy to follow. The series I am doing is 30 to 40 minutes each session and a lot of it is meditation-like and stretching. I used to do a 90 minute Bikram yoga, so this feels like a respite. It helps me focus on something else for awhile.

      Foreshadowing, Amy, on how humans are social creatures. Like you say, great to have connections in the blogging community. Take care. Hugs and stay healthy!xx

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  45. Hi Erica! Thank you so much for sharing your great ideas AND your enthusiasm in this post in spite of the uncertainty of these days. I loved ALL your suggestions and recommendations and have downloaded the Kornfield podcast to listen to tomorrow during my walk. Thom and I are staying healthy in our neck of the woods and doing our best to help others any way we can. I also agree that we are very fortunate to be able to write and share and connect with so many others through the blogging community–I think it REALLY makes a difference. Thank you for your inspiration! ~Kathy

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    1. Hi Kathy, I read something yesterday that sat with me, ‘we have been preparing for this moment all of our lives.’ This can be open to interpretation, yet we do have coping skills we have learned over the years. Like you say, ‘doing our best to help others any way we can.’ Thank you for sharing your thoughts and I look forward to staying connected.

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    1. Nice to meet you, Kim or Kimberley 🙂 I visited your blog site to find out your name. I became lost in your stories and your beautiful photos. It sounds like you are also a West Coast girl. I live on the Island. Yet, I find everyone feels closer in this Global community of bloggers around the world. I greatly appreciate the follow and I have subscribed to your blog. I look forward to reading and connecting. Thank you for your kind comment. I am heading off soon for a walk, too.

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  47. Woah, this post has really resonated with so many of us, In these worst of world circumstances we are actually feeling more connected as we endeavour to do all we can to not catch the virus and to stay close to home and in the home. I admit our country has not been well-organised – in Australia we have leaders of the country and the states and there has been massive confusion and ill-communication. We have, by now, more than ever, become very aware as so many people are out of work thanks to the many closures of businesses and more. My husband and I are retired and live alone but we miss the social interactions when going out. Our family will stay in touch on line but nothing is quite like that physical presence. But if everyone does do as suggested and mandated we will come out of this. Thank you for sharing how it is for you. Denyse #mlstl

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    1. You said this well, Denyse, on how we are feeling more connected. The concept of communication enters every part of our lives, and unfortunately ill-communication is a huge problem. I am positive and hopeful, too, how we will come out of it. It may take awhile before we begin restoring. Take care and stay healthy, Denyse. I have been loving your Instagram updates!

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  48. Wow! Thank you for the mention. That’s so kind! 🙂 🙂 I’m sitting here with a lump in my throat and a leaden feeling in my stomach. I seldom dream vividly but I sometimes have those awakening thoughts that can become a nightmare. My one regret in all this is that I am so far from family. Please God, keep them safe! And yours too!

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  49. What a magnificent and heartwarming post. So lovely to read this post as your warmth and positive attitude embraces every sentence. Due to all our travel and life changing events due to Corona Virus, I have been slow to catch up on the other blogs that I love to read and it is so nice to start my day today with yours. The photos are lovely and I can only imagine how hard it is for your grandchildren not only to understand but also to accept the new reality.

    We do zoom calls once a week with our sons: in Portland, in Chicago and in California. And it’s a great way to all get together at once and check in with how everyone is doing and offer support as a cohesive family unit

    We are all so fortunate to be able to social distance… others in countries such as India for example to do not have this luxury and often not the luxury of running water to wash hands. My heart so goes out to them right now…..

    Peta

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    1. Thank you Peta for your very kind and supportive words. We just started zoom calls and I find it is better than Video Chat when interacting with a group. You are right, Peta, on how we are giving each other support. I am very grateful for all of our basic necessities and I do not look too far ahead. My heart also goes out to so many people right now. I am hopeful although this is going to continue to be a challenge for quite awhile. I think your most recent update came to my inbox tonight. You and Ben take care and stay safe.

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  50. Hi Erica, thanks for a lovely, thought-provoking post. I’m in lock down with my husband of almost 11 years. We’re in a one room apartment with no balcony or terrace. Fortunately we’re still in love! We’re in Eastern Europe, my husband’s family is in France and mine’s in Australia, and we’d been living in Russia for more than 10 years until last Saturday. I don’t keep in close contact with my family in Australia, it’s too emotionally painful for me, so we write emails or message from time to time. My husband face times with his mum every day right now, she’s 80 and alone at home. Looking forward to this ending and normality returning. All the best to you and your family. 🙂

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    1. Hi Cheryl, I was reading your circuitous journey to leave your home. I look forward to reading the update. We are also all in almost complete lock down. My husband and I have been completely socially isolating the last two weeks. It is wonderful your husband has been FaceTiming with his Mom. Is someone helping her FaceTime? I am hopeful that this too shall pass, although it is going to take awhile. Take care and stay safe.🙂

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      1. Hi Erica, isn’t it strange all this social isolation? I’m not the most outgoing person, but I am missing the ‘mingling’ we usually do as human beings – in the shop, in public transport. My husband’s mum is 80 and has recently got her first email address! Her daughter taught her about FaceTime, and she got the hang of it really quickly! She’s much more ‘advanced’ than me with technology – I don’t even have a smartphone! Thanks for reading my blog, we’re still in Bucharest and will be here until mid-May, if borders are open then we’ll go somewhere else, if not then we’ll be here a little longer. 🙂 Crazy days indeed! Enjoy the rest of your week. 🙂 x

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        1. Cheryl, I think many people who like to write also like their quiet, alone time. I am with you on how I still miss the people contact. Your husband’s Mom is inspirational. A good reminder not to generalize people’s capabilities based on age. I have seen photos of Romania and people say the area is very beautiful. Hopefully you will have a chance to explore a bit. Stay safe and I look forward to hearing about your future adventures.🙂

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