In Part 1 – The Rat Came Back The Very Next Day (Part 1 link here)
You met my daughter, Sara, and Marley the Rat. You learned how:
- Sara adopts Marley, a newborn mouse/rat
- Marley goes AWOL
- Construction has started on the Rat Palace
Part 2
Construction Is Completed On Marley’s Rat Palace
Marley Already Leads A Cushy Lifestyle
“Clearly, Marley has been enjoying his stay at Chez Sara.” Nancy Spirit Lights The Way
Last month, Marley went AWOL three times.
He escaped the confines of his cage, exploring the outside world.
Sara thought he was a goner.
He chose to return to the sanctuary of his home.
The Rat Palace is an upgrade and a reward for good behaviour.
“You must let Marley know he’s a King. (I think he knows that already judging by his palace.)” Susan Scott Garden of Eden
Marley Gets A Roommate
Sara: “So excited!! Marley is getting a friend. Adopting Simba from the SPCA this week.”
I did not know you could adopt a rat from the SPCA.
Sara assures me Marley and Simba are both male rats.
Do I believe everything Sara says?
Sara also thought Marley the rat was a mouse.
Do Marley and Simba get Along?
Poor Simba
Marley needs a time out!
Marley is temporarily placed in Rat Jail.
It is not considered play fighting, when there is blood, bad scratches, excessive hissing and high-pitched squeaking.
Does Marley Learn His Lesson?
Sara: “I’m actually blown away at the moment…both rats are cuddling. First time they’ve been together without fighting.”
Are Rats Smarter Than People?
Rats Are Super Smart
- Even though the rat brain is smaller and less complex than the human brain, research has shown that the two are remarkably similar in structure and function.
- Rats are independent, interactive, loyal, affectionate and easily trained.
- Rats are highly social animals.
- Rats can recognize their names and respond when called.
- Some rats are more intelligent than dogs.
Some rats are smarter than people.
Marley is a smart rat.
Should I Stay Or Should I Go?
I read a recent comment from a friend: “The best time to open the door to the cages we’ve built around ourselves is now. Live your dreams while you are able.” Lisa Dorenfest (comment link)
The hair rose on my arms. Lisa is a wise woman.
I have built a self-imposed cage around me. The cage door has been open, yet I have been hesitant to venture out.
This whole COVID-19 thing has thrown me for a loop.
The rules and recommendations vary daily.
Twenty different experts will interpret the guidelines twenty different ways.
Should I stay or should I go?
Is Marley The Rat Smarter Than I Am?
I Can Learn A Thing Or Two From Marley
- Marley seizes the opportunity to venture outside of his cage.
- He explores and interacts with his surroundings.
- He always returns home knowing his comfortable refuge awaits him.
The Cage Door Is Open
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I can leave my home and experience my beautiful surroundings.
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I can visit my loved ones.
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I am grateful to return home to my comfortable sanctuary.
Marley teaches me to seize the moment.
The opportunity is now.
Epilogue:
No Regrets
Since learning a few things from Marley, I did go ahead and visit my Mother and family in the Lower Mainland.
We stayed inside our vehicle on the ferry. We did the whole social distancing, mask, sanitizer thing. Always mindful to keep everyone healthy.
We stayed outside and enjoyed a visit while sitting on our lawn chairs. We slept overnight in our camper.
It felt good to leave the cage.
It also felt good to return home.
No regrets.
Update:
I wrote this story a couple of weeks ago. Unfortunately, people in parts of our planet cannot leave home and visit loved ones right now.
I wish I had a Magic Wand.
Or the Vaccine.
Whichever comes first.
Quote: “My mind is the key that sets me free”. Houdini
Question: Have you learned anything from your pet?
Credits:
I have taken Sara’s quotes throughout this story from her text messages. Some of the photos are also from Sara’s messages. The other photos are mine.
“Should I stay or should I go?” Artist: The Clash
“The cat came back the very next day…..We thought he was a goner.” Original Artist: Laurie Berkner. Also recorded by Fred Penner.
Rat Resources:
Rats can be smarter than people
Behind the Scenery 
I love your daughter. She is a kind person. You can tell a lot by the way people treat animals. We can also learn a lot from animals. They always live in the moment. Glad you were able to see your family. I get to see my brother and his wife often but my niece is hosting 5 of us (all women) for an outside pizza lunch. I am so looking forward to it because it’s family I haven’t seen since the lock down.
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Thank you for your very kind, thoughtful comment, Kate. I knew almost zero about rats until recently, except for the movies and Biology classes. I am still learning from my daughters, and like you say, we can learn a lot from animals. The get togethers with family and friends is extra special right now. I look forward to hearing/reading about your outside pizza lunch. A great idea!
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I like how you intertwined Marley’s escape with your own. We are living in interesting times and spending time with family is more precious than ever before. Glad you managed a getaway with the camper and saw your mom. I still can’t wrap my head around a pet rat especially since we’re currently dealing with mice in the RV … gross 😬
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Oh, no, Ingrid, mice in the RV. We rented an RV one Fall and we had the same problem. It was amazing how mice get in through the tiniest cracks. A pet rat is definitely not my first choice for a pet. It is interesting for me to watch how Sara brings Marley into the family and I have learned a great deal from her and Marley. Thank you for your kind and thoughtful comment, Ingrid. Good luck on the mice. Possibly a future story from you? 😀
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Ah, we’ve been through the mouse saga many a time and it never gets more pleasant. Any food that might normally sit on the counter is currently being hung from cabinet handles. Yeah, don’t have to hang our food in the trees because of bears, but do need to hang our food due to mice 🤣🐭😣
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I basically slept deep under the covers at night, since I could hear them very close to me and I thought they were crawling over my face. Not a pleasant experience at all. 🐭🤪
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Unfortunately, I can relate!
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Hi Erica – I’m so glad that you learnt a lesson from Marley about how to seize your moment of freedom wisely – you managed perfectly to enjoy your family time while still staying as safe as possible. I’m very relieved we don’t have the virus anywhere near us where I am – but regardless, home is still a haven that I’m more than happy to return to – feeling safe is still so important isn’t it? xx
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You made a great point, Leanne, seizing your moment of freedom, wisely. My latest words when interacting with the outside world is “respectful” and “mindful.” I appreciate how we share each week some of the personal challenges in our specific neighbourhoods. I learn a great deal about staying present, and how to move forward. I love “home” and “haven.” Yes, it feels safe. xx
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Glad you had a chance to get away for a quick visit. Since this “new norm” is apt to be with us for awhile, it makes sense to cautiously stick our whiskers outside our cage from time to time!
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You are right, Nancy, It is apt to be with us for awhile. “Cautiously stick our whiskers outside out cage…” made me smile. I can learn a thing or two from Marley and from my blogging friends. 🙂
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Oh, how I love a happy ending. I’m so pleased to hear you were able to see your family, Erica. That’s been the hardest part for so many. How wonderful Marley and Simba are best buddies now. Their condo is fantastic! I can see why they don’t want to leave. Funny, when I’ve passed rats while walking downtown in the dark, to get to work, I was always a little jumpy. Next time, I will think of you and your daughter and smile. Thanks for sharing this heartwarming story.
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You are right, Jill. Not seeing my family has been the hardest part. I know I would regret not making the attempt to see my Mother when I have the opportunity. You know all about this first hand, Jill. I only recently learned more about rats because of Sara. They don’t freak me out as much as they used to……although, I think I would still be the first one on top of the table. Thank you for sharing your thoughts, Jill. Take care and have a good weekend.💕
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While I am not a fan of rats or mice, you tell a very cute story. I think that being a little adventurous in a safe manner is good for your mental health. Great picture of you and your daughter.
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Thank you for your kind and encouraging words, Janet. You are right, “…being a little adventurous in a safe manner is good for your mental health.” I do not want to put my life on hold. Yet, I want to help keep everyone safe and healthy. 🙂
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Great story…so happy you got to see your family. Looking forward to the further adventures of Marley, Simba and You!
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I don’t know whether I will write anything further about Marley. It was really one long story I turned into two parts, so it would not be too long a post. You heard all about how Marley made me rethink my Lower Mainland family visiting plans. Eduarda, you were kind to not tell me how Marley is smarter than I am. 😀 You have your own fur baby at home, who is no longer a baby. I look forward to seeing you soon, after some of the ongoing events. We will have lots to catch up.💕
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I laughed at your comment ‘He chose to return to the sanctuary of his home’. Of course he came back – he knows there will be food there! Marley is no dummy! I always return to places of food too 😆
When it comes to learning from our pets, one of the very first posts I ever wrote was life lessons I learned from my cat, Theo. Our fur babies are wise creatures. They understand what is truly important in life 💕
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You are right, Joanne. I would love to come back as a pet in Sara’s home. Food, shelter, love…and did I mention, food? 🤪 I don’t know about a rat. I made a note to find your post about the life lessons we learn from our pets. They are wise creatures and I am still learning from Marley. 💕
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Sorry – I don’t think you’re going to find it. Remember when I was foolish and thought I should keep posts for only 2 years? I couldn’t find the post so I suspect it was a victim.
Maybe I should redo it someday 🙂
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Joanne, You would likely add some wisdom to your post a few years later. xx I think the whole Marley story is a segue to our recent challenges and how we are going to manage moving forward in a healthy way. This past week, with some of our shenanigans, has taught me how life can still be fun and meaningful. Especially when we hang out with like-minded, amazing friends. xx
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Ah, the adventures of Marley and learning to socialise with Simba. They are clever indeed. It just occurred to me that if you change the words around ‘rat’ can spell ‘art’ and there is no question in my view that Marley and your daughter embody art in the best way 🙂 Unintended consequences for you learning the art of leaving home and being freed from boundaries, and seeing family, and returning home. This is so lovely Erica, thank you for sharing this with us!
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Interesting about “rat” and “art” Susan.🙂 The Marley escapes and some recent words of wisdom did make me realize I was in a self imposed cage. I would have regrets not visiting my Mother when the cage door is presently open. I just have to visit in a way that will try to keep everyone healthy. As you well know, many people on our planet do not have this opportunity. One day at a time. Thank you for sharing your kind and thoughtful words, Susan.xx
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I didn’t know you could adopt a rat from the SPCA either. I’m surprised that people actually take the time to turn them in! Then again, I suppose you don’t want to just set your rat free once you’ve gotten tired of it.
I have learned from my cat, Sydney, that skritches and belly rubs feel really good.
Wait…I already knew that…
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Mark, I was very surprised when Sara sent me the adoption link. I am surprised at a lot of things Sara says and does.😀 Your cat, Sydney, sounds like she is a well-loved member of your family.
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With all my heart I am praying that Simba is a male!! Glad you were inspired by Marley to venture out of your cage. I’m sure it was worth it.
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I agree, Suzanne, Liesbet questioned the sex of Marley in the last post, and I wasn’t too sure. I am just going by what Sara tells me.🙂 Marley did inspire me to venture out of my cage. Of course, I did it in a mindful way and it did feel right and worth it. Thank you for reading and sharing your thoughts. I look forward to connecting again, soon. Have a good weekend.
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The Rat Palace rocks. Oh. my. goodness. it’s a sight to behold. I’ve no doubt that some rats are smarter than some humans. Glad you got the chance to visit those who you care about. You were adventurous, but in as safe of way as possible. Rat Wisdom 101.
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The Rat Palace kind of blew me away, too, Ally. I figured weaving Sara’s texts and photos into a story would be worth sharing. Then, of course, I learned a few things from Marley. Your “Rat Wisdom 101” made me smile. Like you say, in as safe a way as possible.🙂
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Another wonderful post about Marley, and now Simba, Erika. Your daughter is beautiful, she looks just like you.
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Robbie, I greatly appreciate your very kind comment. I pretty well wrote all of this as one story, yet felt it was too long for one post. Therefore, a Part 2. It is interesting for me how I am still learning things from my adult children and now from Marley, the Rat. I know you have a great relationship with your children and creativity obviously runs in your family.😀
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I too would love to have a magic wand Erica. My grandson is ready to give his magic wand to me and my heart goes out to all the kids who have been caged, missing precious moments of friendship, adventure and peer learning. Thanks for sharing those lovely pics of animal family and human family. You have handsome grandsons.
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I get choked up when I think what children are missing during these precious years. I know they are resilient, yet the concept of a carefree childhood seems to have disappeared. As grandparents, hopefully we can keep some of the magic in their lives. Thank you for your kind comment about my family. I know family values mean a great deal to you, too, Balroop.💕
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Marley is younger than Simba and was probably being territorial at the outset. I can relate since my best friend of over 50 years started out with a fight. The Rat Palace is two stories so they can each have their own space. I’m glad to hear they are getting some cuddle time together. Marley taught us that life marches on but we have to get out once in a while. Covid 19 has shown us all we need our own space yet we all crave contact. We’ve been out so now I’m also looking forward to some cuddle time….nudge, nudge, wink, wink.
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I had not thought about the difference in Marley’s and Simba’s ages. Of course, Marley was there first. The “two stories” made me smile. The secret of our success.xo
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What a lovely family you have. I’m glad you opened the cage door and were able to get snuggles from those adorable babies you were holding. I think we pretty much just need to be cautious for the elderly and the vulnerable. My mom hasn’t been able to leave her senior apartment complex since March 1st, and we aren’t allowed to visit. I’m glad they’re watching out for their residents, but it’s hard on her. I felt so bad, I hopped on facebook and asked friends if they would send her a “cheer-up” card. Humanity is still decent, because a got a couple of dozen offers to send her cards, many of them don’t even know her.
Stay well and enjoying life outside of that cage.
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You are right, Lori. All hugs are special, yet those first hugs after being separated for awhile did mean a great deal to us. I am very sorry about the challenges your Mom is facing and how you are not allowed to visit her. I sometimes wonder about the balance between mental and physical health. Yet, I understand how many seniors are fragile and compromised. This “cheer-up” card touched my heart. I am sure it made a difference to her and the ripple effect to your friends. Thank you for sharing.❤️
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I love happy endings! I am glad that Marley and Simba are getting along in their wonderful rat palace, and you left your sanctuary to visit those you love.
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You are right, Deborah, Happy endings…so far. Simba and Marley need to compromise if they want to continue living in their rat palace.🙂 I hope you are having a chance to visit your loved ones. Your breathtaking photos are always a highlight of my week.❤️
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That rat palace! Loving the adventures of Marley and yep, I’m hoping that Simba really is a boy rat too. Love the way you’ve researched this & the facts about rats. Mostly though I agree with you- we can learn so much from our pets. There’s that saying about how I wish I could be the person my dog thinks I am…and another about the freedom of the open gate. x
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It is interesting how much I still learn from my adult daughters and now Marley and Simba. I knew very little about rats until recently. And, still learning. I love the saying “how I wish I could be the person my dog thinks I am.” Pets do keep us in the moment and teach us what is important. Thank you for sharing your thoughts, Jo, especially when you have such a busy week. xx
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Marley’s palace is fabulous! And now he has someone to share it with. I didn’t realize that rats were especially social with each other. Lisa’s comment was indeed wise (as so many things she says are 🙂 ). I’m glad you were able to venture out. I’m posting something along those lines, and I happen to know a few other bloggers who are expanding their circles (wink, wink).
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Janis, I have learned more about rats these past few weeks than I knew my entire life. 🙂 Lisa has shared wise words in the past that continue to stay with me. I think many of us realize we will have to adapt our lives over the next couple of years, yet we don’t want to put our lives on hold. We will likely venture out differently than we have in the past. I really enjoyed your post on this subject. Our philosophies are similar.🙂 Have a great weekend.
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Such a fabulous read Erica! I loved how you took some lessons from Marley and what a wonderful time you were able to have with family by doing so. You took all the precautions and I’m so happy for you. I also think Lisa is a wise woman, as are you!! Rats are much smarter than I ever gave them credit for, can’t believe I just wrote that 🙂 Talk soon!
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Thank you, Deb, for your kind, supportive words, as always. I have only recently learned about rats. Except when I dissected rats in Biology classes many years ago. Fascinating and surreal. I won’t elaborate. I am still always learning from Sara, and doing my mini rat research. I had a lot of misconceptions. For instance, I was really surprised to learn it is not uncommon to adopt a rat. Not for me. Not in my house.🙂
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Nor mine Erica!
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Hi Erica as I’ve said before there is a book here! the adventures of Marley and Simba. It can be so easy to build a cage around our lives especially this year with COVID-19 but I’m so pleased you learned from Marley ventured out – safely and with caution. We can learn so much from our pets and I look forward to the next instalment from Marley and Co. xx
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Hi Sue, Lisa’s wise words stayed with me, how we are building a cage around ourselves. Then I was getting the texts from Sara about Marley’s escapes and more surprisingly, how he would return and go right back into his cage/now palace. Yes, Marley is smarter than me, at times. 😀 You are right “safely and with caution.” As we have spoken about in the past, I don’t want to have many regrets, and I would regret not seeing my Mother and family when I have the opportunity. I always appreciate you sharing your thoughts and your wisdom, Sue.❤️ Have a wonderful weekend, and I look forward to continued sharing. xx
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Hi, Erica – There are so many brilliant gems in this post. I love how you intermingled Marley’s escape story with your own. I’m glad that Marley now has his palace and a friend to cuddle with.
I’m delighted that you have also been able to escape — especially since this has meant that we could meet up.
See you again soon!
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Hi Donna, Lisa’s wise words stayed with me long after I read them. When Marley escaped and returned a few times, I found I did not want to spend my life with too many regrets. I would regret not seeing my loved ones and my friends. We are obviously in this for the long haul. And, it can be done mindfully and with respect for everyone’s health and comfort zone. I know you and I have talked about this in the past. And, yes, the recent meet ups have been a delight and a highlight. Soul soothing and tons of fun! The way we should live life. No regrets! I look forward to seeing you again, soon. xx
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Ditto everything you just said. I agree 100%!
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Erica, you and your daughter are the first I have known having a rat as pets. Quite fascinating to see the development. It is indeed a known fact that rats are clever but it also proves their ability to care and feel emotions.
In many cases a pet of any kind can be good to open a person to their emotional selves and daring to love.
Great post
Miriam
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Hi Miriam, I am still very squeamish about the idea of a rat in the house as a pet. Not my house. Marley is kind of cute, from afar. 🙂 Sara handles him as if he was a kitten. I shiver just thinking about this. I only recently learned more about rats doing my mini rat research and listening to Sara. I am also learning how it is not unusual to have a rat as a pet. Again, not in my house. You bring up a great point, Miriam, how pets are often very helpful for our mental health. One example is the emotional support animals. The “daring to love” is something I have not thought about before. Thank you for reading and sharing your thoughtful and wise comment.💕
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What a great message/lesson. And, you’re right, Lisa’s quote is incredible. I’m so glad the rats became friends and that you were able to get out and visit with people. We’re not meant to live in fear.
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You are right, Betsy, we are not meant to live in fear. From what I see in your stories, you are always trying to impart the joy and fun in life with your children. I think our children ground us and always teach us what is truly important. Thank you for sharing your wise, supportive and thoughtful words.🙂
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Dang, girl. Right back atcha! 🙂 And I’m so happy to have finally discovered your blog!
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What a nice thing to say, Betsy! And back atcha! ❤️
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Love how you tied it all together here, Erica, with freedom of moment, cages, COVID, etc. A wonderful symmetry to how we’re all living our lives right now. Sara is one brave woman, though! – Marty
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Thank you for your kind, supportive comment, Marty. Lisa’s wise words stayed with me long after I read them. Then Marley entered our lives (at my daughter’s house – no way at my house!). I realize this little rat is often smarter than I am. I do not want to live my life with regrets, and I would regret not seeing my family. We are likely in it for the long haul. I hope you and Gorgeous have a great weekend and have the opportunity step out of the cage for a bit.🙂
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Still not quite convinced by rats as pets – but you make a really good story from them!
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Marley is Sara’s pet rat (not in my house!) I am amazed how Marley continues to return to his cage/palace. Obviously, he knows a good thing. I read her texts in disbelief and then I realize, Marley is often smarter than I am. Many lessons we can learn from animals. 🙂
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My present kitties are excellent at demonstrating the value of an afternoon nap. During my single mom chapter of life, my craziest pup taught me self sufficiency. Cici liked to take her leash in her own mouth and walk herself. I learned how to fix my own AC and other issues around the house. Animals are often smarter than people, And there are many animals I prefer to many people!!
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Leslie, You are definitely smarter than Marley, with all of the wisdom you share in your comment. ❤️ “Self-sufficiency” is an essential skill, especially when the need arises. The “walk herself” made me smile. And, I am definitely nodding my head in agreement “…there are many animals I prefer to many people!!” Well said! 🙂
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Gave me goosebumps to see my name here in this post and to know that my words left such an impression on you. Marley’s lessons are so crucial to our world right now. I am glad that you ‘pulled a Marley’ and braved a wander to visit family. You’ve shown that while traveling in the time of COVID is a challenge, it is possible, rewarding, and builds a fondness for home.
I look forward to the day when everyone can leave their homes and visit loved ones again.
Sorry that I’ve been out of touch, Our past two months have been filled with change. More details to come, but today, we crossed the border into the US for the first time in 7.5 years. Mind-blowing,
PS – love those pics from Island View Beach
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Hi Lisa, Your words resonated with me and stayed with me long after I read them. ❤️ You have impacted many people with your wisdom. I cannot imagine your life for the past few months. I hope all is okay. You are now in the U.S. “Mindblowing” ?!?! Like you say “more details to come.” Thank you for all of your good wishes. Hugs and a safe journey. ❤️
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You have a way to make your blog posts entertaining, attractive, and diverse, Erica! Those rats are quite something. I had no idea you could adopt them, either, but what a pleasure and learning experience to have them as pets. Love the new palace your daughter and her helpers built!
I’m glad you ventured outside and managed to visit your family on the mainland. How did I miss you have a camper?? I have come to realize – and experience – it is quite possible to meet people and visit places while, taking the social distancing, wearing masks, and sanitizing principles into account.
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I greatly appreciate your kind, supportive words, Liesbet. I learned more about rats in the last few weeks than I have known my entire life. I did have a brief flashback of dissecting in Biology classes. Trying to block this out of my mind.
I agree with you, Liesbet, how we can interact with people and visit places in a mindful way. We are likely living like this now, for the long haul.
And, yes, camping all of our life. A highlight for us. Take care and I look forward to continuing our connections.❤️
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What a beautiful family you have! I enjoyed reading about Marley’s adventures and how sweet that Marley encouraged you to get on the ferry and do some socially distant visiting…
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Hi Kim, I greatly appreciate your kind, thoughtful comment. I think most of us do learn from the pets and animals in our life. I don’t think animals overthink all the situations in their life. It did feel good and right to visit family, especially when the doors are presently open. I hope all is well in your neck of the woods. Take care.🙂
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All is good, we’re living this new life one day at a time! X
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Love this! I see a storybook in Marley.
Your little boys are beautiful and must be so much fun. Stay well.
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Hi Antoinette, I am late responding since I was out of cell range this week. I had not thought about turning the story into a book. I found my daughter’s texts and photos entertaining. You know all about how our family is the light of our lives. ❤️ I am very lucky. Take care and stay well.
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Hi Erica/ Erika: Marley and Simba are two lucky rats that benefit from Sara’s kindness. I’m glad you decided to venture out and see your family and friends. I know everyone’s comfort zone around covid-19 is different. Personally, I follow public health guidelines (e.g. wash hands, stay at least 2m apart, keep safe social bubble, maintain social distancing, wear mask, etc.) and try to continue to live a healthy and enriched life as much as I’m able to do. I think we both figure out how to have fun and stay safe.
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Hi Natalie, I am late responding since I was out of cell range this week. You say it perfectly how “everyone’s comfort zone around Covid-19 is different.” You are a wonderful example of living your life fully while following public health guidelines. And, yes, still having fun. Thank you for sharing and take care.
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HI Erica/Erika, like others, I appreciate the weaving/interweaving you did with this story. As a Beach Girl, I love the photos of Vancouver Island, the beach, the birds, the whole thing. That Rat Palace is appropriately named, wow! I am glad that you were able to see some family and admire how you did it. I think we have to strike a balance between being careful and being creative. Not creative in the sense of looking for loopholes, but in the idea of brainstorming ways to be together and be safe. Blessings, Michele
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Hi Michele, I am late responding since I have been out of cell range this week. I took many quotes directly from Sara’s texts “Rat Palace” “Rat Jail.” And, then, many of her photos. The whole situation makes me smile. Since they all live at her house. 🙂
Michele, you make a great point on finding creative ways to visit, live life and help keep everyone healthy. Thank you, again, for sharing your wisdom.xx
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After being at home for so long we all want to escape. and then are glad when we get home. Especially when it is Vancouver Island.. although California looks tempting.
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Hi Ann, I had a ton of fun escaping to Hornby and your great organizational skills. xx
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Rae Mate can do illustrations for your book. She is on Hornby Island and does drawings of animals.
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I had not considered turning the story into a book. I find Sara’s texts and photos entertaining and I figured it was worth sharing. Thank you for the information. Something to think about.
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I am just blown away regarding all the beautiful metaphors, allegories and lessons this story has given. I’ve chosen to live my life a certain way. I’m like Marley, ha ha; yet, I understand why other people make different choices. I don’t want to judge them; and I don’t wish to be judged either. I am very suspicious of fast-tracked vaccines as I approach health from a holistic point of view. My husband who has NEVER had a flu shot has NEVER had the flu! (I know, I know…knock on wood). Recently I was in three different USA airports and on three different American airplanes and I am still alive and kicking! That trip will be fodder for a future blog as there were extenuating circumstances requiring me to travel. Let’s just say, love over rules fear. I have no regrets either!
This has been a most illuminating post as I’ve learned things about rats I’ve never known. I’m so glad that you took a lesson from Marley and “broke out of your cage” as you felt inclined and safe to do so. I’m still seeing a book out of all of this!
A beautiful post,
Susan Grace
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I am late responding, Susan, since I have been out of cell range this week. You are a wonderful example of living a healthy lifestyle. A holistic, comprehensive lifestyle. Good grief about your recent flying. Especially if it is unexpected and extenuating circumstances. A few thoughts sat with me, Lisa’s words and Marley’s antics. My daughter, Sara, is very loving to her fur family and her human family. She also has a witty way with words and her texts. Many lessons here for me.
I am intrigued about your extenuating circumstances, when you are ready to share. I know there are recent posts in my inbox and I look forward to reading them.xx❤️
Thank you for sharing your thoughts and insights and wisdom. Always greatly appreciated.
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Dear E/E: you not only compose great blogs but you also write awesome comments! I can’t wait to share the circumstances that required my travel. I know you will completely get it and say “a-ha, of course”. 😉
And by the way, kudos to you for getting somewhere that was out of cell range. You know, I was once on a yoga retreat and I promised myself I would not check my email or watch you-tube videos. Well darn, if all those good intentions didn’t fall by the wayside. Now that wasn’t so “holistic” of me, ha ha! 🙂
Your family is beautiful!
Susan Grace
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Dear Susan, You are always great for my spirit. You leave me with a smile and a bounce in my step.❤️
You may have seen Donna’s posts and some of her recent photos. We were on Hornby Island on Monday. Spotty cell, or no cell coverage. And then I stayed with my daughter where she has inconsistent cell coverage. Sometimes, a bonus. In September we plan to head on our camping trip which also makes us unplug. Pros and cons, yet healthy to be unplugged for awhile.
Huge belly laugh on not so “holistic” of you. 😅 I will catch up on my reading. I look forward to getting your updates. You have now added the element of “suspense” to your writing. 😀 Always great and fun to hear from you. Take care and we will stay in touch.❤️
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I saw your post over at Sally’s and thought to myself – I haven’t visited Erica in a while. I’m so glad I did. Now I’m caught up on The Adventures of Marley, A Very Smart Rat. 🙂 It’s so interesting to me how wisdom can be found all around us in nature, and that includes the rats. I’m glad you got out and saw family while being as safe as possible. I do the same, partly because I care for my parents and grandchild, but also because the connections are vital to all of us. There are no guarantees of 100% safety, but that has always been true of life. We can only do our best. Thanks for the smile, my friend. I hope you have a lovely day. ❤
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Thank you, Diana, for visiting here. You are absolutely right about wisdom in nature. Marley, Sara’s rat, blew me away. I learned a great deal from him. I recall you sharing the challenges and worries about your parents, especially when our cage doors were still closed. My husband and I also discuss how nothing is ever 100% safe. Yes, we can only do our best. Thank you for sharing your wisdom (still some smart humans around, too). 🙂Take care and have a good day.❤️
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This post was meant for me to read. Not only do I love the quote – (I am a fan of wise sayings), but I also was just posting about my dog. I do learn a lot from the interaction between my dog and the new puppy. If we have an open mind and a keen observer of animal behaviour, we might see a mirror into the lives of people around us. Marley is a very smart rat and whilst there were differences, it sounds like they have worked out the problems. Rats do sound intelligent and have probably been badly misunderstood as they are opportunists in the animal world. We have a marsupial rat species in Australia, that has some rather odd mating habits.
https://its-interesting.com/2015/06/29/antechinus-mate-until-the-point-of-death/
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Hi Amanda, Fascinating information about the Antechinus. The “ambush mating” made me smile. Whatever works for them.
I only recently learned more about rats, except for dissecting in biology classes many years ago. You are right “a mirror into the lives of people around us.” I realize I can learn a few things from Marley. As long as he stays at my daughter’s home. 🙂 Thank you for reading and sharing your comment.
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I empathize with your wish that Marley stays at another location, however smart Marley is.
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Erica, I love your post and the wisdom you hare share along the way! 😀 Marley has won a place not only in Sara’s and you hearts but ours as well! I’m glad he’s behaving with Simba and now out of jail! Oh, yes we all need to grab a bit of courage and explore our surroundings a bit further if possible…yet, it is frightening. I’m so happy you had a chance to visit your mothers, stay overnight! That must have been amazing! Small steps and at all times feel thankful for them is the key at the moment. Btw the photos are wonderful and I’m soaking in the glorious seascape pictures and your daughter is lovely and your grandsons adorable! Big ahhhh…. love & hugs xx ❤️
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Annika, The word “courage” is a theme weaving through “Oskar’s Quest.” You wrote beautifully how animals share their wisdom. I also recall how special it was when you initially visited your Mom.
It is interesting how you use the phrase “small steps.” Our family has been taking “baby steps.” Realistically, for us, it is an overnight trip to go to the mainland. The camper worked out great for this.
Your new author website and blog page is beautiful and welcoming!
Thank you for your kind and thoughtful comment. Take care and enjoy your weekend.xx❤️
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I learned so much about rats here. And about humans. Sometimes we all want to give up on humans – human beings can be nasty and unkind and wicked and cruel. But then I read about people like Sara, who rescues rats and gives them fancy homes and trains them and also raises a really wonderful mother.
Now, I not only like intelligent rats, I love part of the human race again. 🙂
We individual humans do build cages around ourselves, and during these Covid times, it’s understandable. But… we need to ‘bust out’ and stay safe, but also see our loved ones, and live life as freely as possible. ❤
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You ‘get it’ Pam. I am in awe of my daughter Sara, and my husband and I often wonder, “where did she come from?” (Just teasing Sara, in case she reads this). Rats are fine at her house. Not at our house.
I find Sara’s texts and photos entertaining. I have learned a great deal about rats in the last couple of months.
We have had a window of opportunity to explore in a mindful and safe way. You say it perfectly, about living life “as freely as possible.” Thank you for sharing your kindness and wisdom, Pam.❤️
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Believe me, I know what you mean. When I look at my adult children I wonder the same thing – “where’d they come from?” Well, the good news is that we nestled them at first, then let them fly into their own beings… ❤
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Erica that was a fascinating read. These past months have at times felt like being a rat in a cage. We are currently visiting my Mom who I haven’t seen since January. It was a long decision process including a COVID test and enough sanitizer to weigh down the vehicle.
We won’t be venturing into crowds or restaurants however these rats try to keep up their spirits in nature and then back home to a little comfortable cage called home.
Great quote from Lisa. We had the pleasure of meeting her in Australia and were mere kilometres apart in Thailand but just couldn’t quite connect unfortunately.
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Hi Sue, You say it very well and I wholeheartedly agree “…these rats try to keep up their spirits in nature and then back home to a little comfortable cage called home.”
We are exceptionally fortunate we live in a beautiful part of the world and we have access to nature.
Wow, on how you met, Lisa. I am fortunate how all of our paths have crossed in the blogging community. It is always extra special to meet in real life. I greatly appreciate you visiting and sharing your thoughts.
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My daughters had pet rats….can’t remember the number over the years. They had a very big three story rat palace. We learnt that there are different social types of rats who have different “jobs” in the house. They are quite clever and fun to have around
brian
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Brian, This whole rat thing is new to me. A am learning a great deal. I am also often surprised by my daughter, Sara. Children seem to do that to us. 🙂 You are a wonderful Father to have a three story rat palace at your home. Not for me. Thank you for reading and sharing your thoughts.🙂
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I left on August 21 to visit my granddaughter and came back a couple days ago, so I’m catching up. It makes me laugh when your said Sara assures you Marley and Simba are both male rats. I love her kindness for animals. She is so pretty and I’m so happy for you and Sara for this new adventure. 🙂
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Hi Miriam, Thank you for reading and your kind comment about Sara. I sometimes wonder about her antics, even as an adult. 🙂 She has always been a very kind and loving girl/woman. I am very glad you had the opportunity to visit your granddaughter. Warms my heart, since I know how important your family is to you. xx❤️
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My pleasure, Erica. It warms my heart to see the passion and energy in Sara and the loving relationship with you. You have a good way to post it and share with this community. I enjoyed reading about it so much. ❤
Yes, I'm so glad to spend time with my daughter and the granddaughters, and look forward to the next trip! ❤
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I loved all of this.. it’s funny and heartfelt and informative. All animals are way smarter than we give them credit and they are all sentient beings. People tend to have such very automatically negative reactions to mice and rats, and bats and snakes…
Beautiful photo of your family and in particular of you and your daughter. Gorgeous.
Peta
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Hi Peta, I recently learned a great deal about rats. I love your phrase “sentient beings.” We can often see it in animal’s eyes. My daughters often still amaze me. And, usually in a good way. 🙂 They help reinforce how this next generation has wonderful values and all will be okay. I know how your family means a great deal to you, too, Peta. ❤️ Thank you for reading and sharing your kind, thoughtful comment.
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Erica, any post that opens with the words “Rat Palace” has my attention! 🙂 Good for Marley. And your observations on leaving one’s” safe palace” are so timely. I’m thrilled you were able to visit with family.
Normally this time of year we are traveling – roaming this world far and wide. But this year is certainly different. We’ve managed to take a few short camping trips close to home that did wonders for our mental health. Sometimes it’s the small steps that make all the difference. 🙂 Terri
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You are right, Terri, this year is totally different. We are planning our Fall unplugged camping trip and it always does wonders for our mental health. I am especially looking forward to this year’s trip. I am grateful how we are able to still camp in certain areas. Marley the rat, honestly made me evaluate how I was living my life in a self imposed cage. Like you say, small steps can make all the difference. I greatly appreciate you reading and sharing your thoughts. 🙂
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Hi Erica! Clearly I have been AWOL like Marley for a while now. As you know I took a break from blogging and that includes checking my friends blog post. But I’m back and what a GREAT blog post to return to because yes, it is all about breaking out of our cages. May be both realize we held the keys all the time! Thanks for the excellent reminder. ~Kathy
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Thanks again, Kathy, for reading and sharing your thoughts. I scratch my head in disbelief when I read some of Sara’s texts about Marley the rat. I did learn at least one lesson from Marley, how I was living my life in a self-imposed cage. I look forward to connecting again, soon, Kathy.
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Hi Erica – I’m very late … but glad I got here – I needed to read the post through in relatively peace and quiet … all fine on this eastern front. Wonderful story you’ve given us … great to see all the photos … and wise words all round – we’re locked in, yet we’re not … there are opportunities to get out and about … we just need to be the flexible humans we are. I’ve never been fond of pet rats … hence my reticence in being here … and saw a tv programme about rats escaping and causing havoc … not nice – gave me nightmares … I’m fine now – but will always remember that episode!! Take care and I hope all well with everyone … and I’m so glad you decided to get out and check in with your mother … all the best – Hilary
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Hi Hilary, I often compartmentalize my reading and commenting. We will be unplugged on our camping trip this month. Then I look forward to catching up afterwards.
Thank you for your kind, supportive words. Like you say, we are locked in, yet we’re not. We have had a significant uptick in cases in B.C. We are fortunate to be able to go camping. I am not at all a fan of rats and I am the first one on the table. I read my daughter’s texts in disbelief. I have learned a great deal from her and from Marley the Rat. I hope you and your loved ones are well. Take care.
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Have a lovely time camping … sounds wonderful. I can believe your daughter’s story is a little worrying … mind you rats are around … I found them when I was ‘living’ down near Cobble Hill … endemic little chaps!! Just enjoy yourself … take care and see you on your return. Hilary
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I am hearing more about rats in B.C. I will call Marley, a domesticated rat, just to feel better about him living at Sara’s place. Thanks for visiting, Hilary. Take care.
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Oh yes … ok … he’s a pal … the ones I encountered were not …not at all! Great to know Marley … just enjoy that trip … stay safe too – cheers HIlary
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Beautiful, timely and heartwarming story! You and Marley went on an adventure. We learn so much from our animal friends. I’m glad you got to see your family and escape your ‘cage” for a while.
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Mother Wintermoon, Thank you for reading and sharing your kind, supportive words. You are right. We learn a great deal from animals and even from rats. Marley honestly made me reevaluate how I was living my life. We had a window of opportunity to leave our homes, yet I was playing it too safe. I would regret not seeing my Mother when I had the opportunity. Take care, stay well, and I look forward to connecting and sharing.
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Marley was living his best life. Animals are our teachers and healers. I’m glad you grabbed that opportunity and ran with it. I’m very happy that our path crossed. Abundant blessings, MW ❤️
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Marley’s rat palace is magnificent! You shared many wise words of learning from him, Erica. It’s amazing what we can learn when we stop to ponder. I’m glad that you were able to visit your mother. It’s good, and right, and necessary to escape the cage sometimes. Thanks for sharing your insights. xx
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Hi Amy, I am delayed in responding to you since we just returned from camping Long Beach on the Island. You are right, how the timing was good to leave the cage for awhile. Life seems to be changing daily and we are learning how to balance safety and family. I greatly appreciate your supportive and kind words, Amy. I look forward to catching up with your life and connecting with you. xx
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Hi Erica. Living life in a self-imposed cage — isn’t it fascinating how we learn lessons from life going on around us? In this case, you had an insight about your own choices as you thought about Marley’s behaviour. And what an interesting insight! I think it’s human nature to create mental cages for ourselves, and then also to recognize those cages and escape them (or not, which is sad).
Jude
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Hi Jude, You are aware how life is changing almost daily. At that time we were opening up our bubble and I knew I would have regrets not seeing my Mother. I listen to Sara’s stories about Marley, the rat, and I had an aha moment. Funny how that happens.🙂 I am learning how I do follow rules more than I had realized or thought about in the past. Yet, there is a healthy balance
Thank you, again, for sharing your thoughts.
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